As for Saint Lambert, he behaved like an honest and judicious man:  as I was the only person culpable, so was I the only one who was punished; this, however, was with the greatest indulgence.  He treated me severely, but in a friendly manner, and I perceived I had lost something in his esteem, but not the least part of his friendship.  For this I consoled myself, knowing it would be much more easy to me to recover the one than the other, and that he had too much sense to confound an involuntary weakness and a passion with a vice of character.  If even I were in fault in all that had passed, I was but very little so.  Had I first sought after his mistress?  Had not he himself sent her to me?  Did not she come in search of me?  Could I avoid receiving her?  What could I do?  They themselves had done the evil, and I was the person on whom it fell.  In my situation they would have done as much as I did, and perhaps more; for, however estimable and faithful Madam d’Houdetot might be, she was still a woman; her lover was absent; opportunities were frequent; temptations strong; and it would have been very difficult for her always to have defended herself with the same success against a more enterprising man.  We certainly had done a great deal in our situation, in placing boundaries beyond which we never permitted ourselves to pass.

Although at the bottom of my heart I found evidence sufficiently honorable in my favor, so many appearances were against me, that the invincible shame always predominant in me, gave me in his presence the appearance of guilt, and of this he took advantage for the purpose of humbling me:  a single circumstance will describe this reciprocal situation.  I read to him, after dinner, the letter I had written the preceding year to Voltaire, and of which Saint Lambert had heard speak.  Whilst I was reading he fell asleep, and I, lately so haughty, at present so foolish, dared not stop, and continued to read whilst he continued to snore.  Such were my indignities and such his revenge; but his generosity never permitted him to exercise them; except between ourselves.

After his return to the army, I found Madam d’Houdetot greatly changed in her manner with me.  At this I was as much surprised as if it had not been what I ought to have expected; it affected me more than it ought to have done, and did me considerable harm.  It seemed that everything from which I expected a cure, still plunged deeper into my heart the dart, which I at length broke in rather than draw out.

I was quite determined to conquer myself, and leave no means untried to change my foolish passion into a pure and lasting friendship.  For this purpose I had formed the finest projects in the world; for the execution of which the concurrence of Madam d’ Houdetot was necessary.  When I wished to speak to her I found her absent and embarrassed; I perceived I was no longer agreeable to her, and that something had passed which she would not communicate to me, and which I have never yet known.  This change, and the impossibility of knowing the reason of it, grieved me to the heart.