Now the end, I take it, is all one, to live at more leisure and at one’s ease: but men do not always take the right way. They often think they have totally taken leave of all business, when they have only exchanged one employment for another: there is little less trouble in governing a private family than a whole kingdom. Wherever the mind is perplexed, it is in an entire disorder, and domestic employments are not less troublesome for being less important. Moreover, for having shaken off the court and the exchange, we have not taken leave of the principal vexations of life:
“Ratio
et prudentia curas,
Non
locus effusi late maris arbiter, aufert;”
["Reason and prudence, not a place
with a commanding view of the
great ocean, banish care.”—Horace,
Ep., i. 2.]
ambition, avarice, irresolution, fear, and inordinate desires, do not leave us because we forsake our native country:
“Et
Post equitem sedet atra cura;”
["Black
care sits behind the horse man.”
—Horace,
Od., iii. 1, 40].
they often follow us even to cloisters and philosophical schools; nor deserts, nor caves, hair-shirts, nor fasts, can disengage us from them:
“Haeret lateri lethalis arundo.”
["The fatal shaft adheres to the side.”—AEneid, iv. 73.]
One telling Socrates that such a one was nothing improved by his travels: “I very well believe it,” said he, “for he took himself along with him”
“Quid
terras alio calentes
Sole
mutamus? patriae quis exsul
Se
quoque fugit?”
["Why do we seek climates warmed
by another sun? Who is the man
that by fleeing from his country, can also flee
from himself?”
—Horace, Od., ii. 16, 18.]