make use of their own daughters or sons, without scandal:
where, at their solemn feasts, they interchangeably
lend their children to one another, without any consideration
of nearness of blood. In one place, men feed
upon human flesh; in another, ’tis reputed a
pious office for a man to kill his father at a certain
age; elsewhere, the fathers dispose of their children,
whilst yet in their mothers’ wombs, some to be
preserved and carefully brought up, and others to be
abandoned or made away. Elsewhere the old husbands
lend their wives to young men; and in another place
they are in common without offence; in one place particularly,
the women take it for a mark of honour to have as many
gay fringed tassels at the bottom of their garment,
as they have lain with several men. Moreover,
has not custom made a republic of women separately
by themselves? has it not put arms into their hands,
and made them raise armies and fight battles?
And does she not, by her own precept, instruct the
most ignorant vulgar, and make them perfect in things
which all the philosophy in the world could never beat
into the heads of the wisest men? For we know
entire nations, where death was not only despised,
but entertained with the greatest triumph; where children
of seven years old suffered themselves to be whipped
to death, without changing countenance; where riches
were in such contempt, that the meanest citizen would
not have deigned to stoop to take up a purse of crowns.
And we know regions, very fruitful in all manner of
provisions, where, notwithstanding, the most ordinary
diet, and that they are most pleased with, is only
bread, cresses, and water. Did not custom, moreover,
work that miracle in Chios that, in seven hundred years,
it was never known that ever maid or wife committed
any act to the prejudice of her honour?
To conclude; there is nothing, in my opinion, that
she does not, or may not do; and therefore, with very
good reason it is that Pindar calls her the ruler
of the world. He that was seen to beat his father,
and reproved for so doing, made answer, that it was
the custom of their family; that, in like manner,
his father had beaten his grandfather, his grandfather
his great-grandfather, “And this,” says
he, pointing to his son, “when he comes to my
age, shall beat me.” And the father, whom
the son dragged and hauled along the streets, commanded
him to stop at a certain door, for he himself, he
said, had dragged his father no farther, that being
the utmost limit of the hereditary outrage the sons
used to practise upon the fathers in their family.
It is as much by custom as infirmity, says Aristotle,
that women tear their hair, bite their nails, and
eat coals and earth, and more by custom than nature
that men abuse themselves with one another.