But the company, which of all others you should most carefully avoid, is that low company, which, in every sense of the word, is low indeed; low in rank, low in parts, low in manners, and low in merit.  You will, perhaps, be surprised that I should think it necessary to warn you against such company, but yet I do not think it wholly, unnecessary, from the many instances which I have seen of men of sense and rank, discredited, verified, and undone, by keeping such company.

Vanity, that source of many of our follies, and of some of our crimes, has sunk many a man into company, in every light infinitely, below himself, for the sake of being the first man in it.  There he dictates, is applauded, admired; and, for the sake of being the Coryphceus of that wretched chorus, disgraces and disqualifies himself soon for any better company.  Depend upon it, you will sink or rise to the level of the company which you commonly keep:  people will judge of you, and not unreasonably, by that.  There is good sense in the Spanish saying, “Tell me whom you live with, and I will tell you who you are.”  Make it therefore your business, wherever you are, to get into that company which everybody in the place allows to be the best company next to their own; which is the best definition that I can give you of good company.  But here, too, one caution is very necessary, for want of which many young men have been ruined, even in good company.

Good company (as I have before observed) is composed of a great variety of fashionable people, whose characters and morals are very different, though their manners are pretty much the same.  When a young man, new in the world, first gets into that company, he very rightly determines to conform to, and imitate it.  But then he too often, and fatally, mistakes the objects of his imitation.  He has often heard that absurd term of genteel and fashionable vices.  He there sees some people who shine, and who in general are admired and esteemed; and observes that these people are whoremasters, drunkards, or gamesters, upon which he adopts their vices, mistaking their defects for their perfections, and thinking that they owe their fashions and their luster to those genteel vices.  Whereas it is exactly the reverse; for these people have acquired their reputation by their parts, their learning, their good-breeding, and other real accomplishments:  and are only blemished and lowered, in the opinions of all reasonable people, and of their own, in time, by these genteel and fashionable vices.  A whoremaster, in a flux, or without a nose, is a very genteel person, indeed, and well worthy of imitation.  A drunkard, vomiting up at night the wine of the day, and stupefied by the headache all the next, is, doubtless, a fine model to copy from.  And a gamester, tearing his hair, and blaspheming, for having lost more than he had in the world, is surely a most amiable character.  No; these are alloys, and great ones too, which can