matters for some time, perhaps a month or two; but I mean, never lose view of that great object; pursue it with discretion, but pursue it always.  ‘Pelotez en attendant partie’.  You know I have always told you that speaking in public was but a knack, which those who apply to the most will succeed in the best.  Two old members, very good judges, have sent me compliments upon this occasion; and have assured me that they plainly find it will do; though they perceived, from that natural confusion you were in, that you neither said all, nor perhaps what you intended.  Upon the whole, you have set out very well, and have sufficient encouragement to go on.  Attend; therefore, assiduously, and observe carefully all that passes in the House; for it is only knowledge and experience that can make a debater.  But if you still want comfort, Mrs.-------I hope, will administer it to you; for, in my opinion she may, if she will, be very comfortable; and with women, as with speaking in parliament, perseverance will most certainly prevail sooner or later.

What little I have played for here, I have won; but that is very far from the considerable sum which you heard of.  I play every evening, from seven till ten, at a crown whist party, merely to save my eyes from reading or writing for three hours by candle-light.  I propose being in town the week after next, and hope to carry back with me much more health than I brought down here.  Good-night.

[Mr. Stanhope being returned to England, and seeing his father almost every day, is the occasion of an interruption of two years in their correspondence.]

LETTERS TO HIS SON 1756-58

By the EARL OF CHESTERFIELD

on the Fine Art of becoming a

MAN OF THE WORLD

and a

Gentleman

LETTER CCIII

Bath, November 15, 1756

My dear friend:  I received yours yesterday morning together with the Prussian, papers, which I have read with great attention.  If courts could blush, those of Vienna and Dresden ought, to have their falsehoods so publicly, and so undeniably exposed.  The former will, I presume, next year, employ an hundred thousand men, to answer the accusation; and if the Empress of the two Russias is pleased to argue in the same cogent manner, their logic will be too strong for all the King of Prussia’s rhetoric.  I well remember the treaty so often referred to in those pieces, between the two Empresses, in 1746.  The King was strongly pressed by the Empress Queen to accede to it.  Wassenaer communicated it to me for that purpose.  I asked him if there were no secret articles; suspecting that there were some, because the ostensible treaty was a mere harmless, defensive one.  He assured me that there were none.  Upon which I told him, that as the King had already