his hump back. Happy those who have no faults
to disguise, nor weaknesses to conceal! there are
few, if any such; but unhappy those who know little
enough of the world to judge by outward appearances.
Courts are the best keys to characters; there every
passion is busy, every art exerted, every character
analyzed; jealousy, ever watchful, not only discovers,
but exposes, the mysteries of the trade, so that even
bystanders ’y apprennent a deviner’.
There too the great art of pleasing is practiced,
taught, and learned with all its graces and delicacies.
It is the first thing needful there: It is the
absolutely necessary harbinger of merit and talents,
let them be ever so great. There is no advancing
a step without it. Let misanthropes and would-be
philosophers declaim as much as they please against
the vices, the simulation, and dissimulation of courts;
those invectives are always the result of ignorance,
ill-humor, or envy. Let them show me a cottage,
where there are not the same vices of which they accuse
courts; with this difference only, that in a cottage
they appear in their native deformity, and that in
courts, manners and good-breeding make them less shocking,
and blunt their edge. No, be convinced that the
good-breeding, the ’tournure, la douceur dans
les manieres’, which alone are to be acquired
at courts, are not the showish trifles only which
some people call or think them; they are a solid good;
they prevent a great deal of real mischief; they create,
adorn, and strengthen friendships; they keep hatred
within bounds; they promote good-humor and good-will
in families, where the want of good-breeding and gentleness
of manners is commonly the original cause of discord.
Get then, before it is too late, a habit of these
‘mitiores virtutes’: practice them
upon every, the least occasion, that they may be easy
and familiar to you upon the greatest; for they lose
a great degree of their merit if they seem labored,
and only called in upon extraordinary occasions.
I tell you truly, this is now the only doubtful part
of your character with me; and it is for that reason
that I dwell upon it so much, and inculcate it so
often. I shall soon see whether this doubt of
mine is founded; or rather I hope I shall soon see
that it is not.
This moment I receive your letter of the 9th N. S. I am sorry to find that you have had, though ever so slight a return of your Carniolan disorder; and I hope your conclusion will prove a true one, and that this will be the last. I will send the mohairs by the first opportunity. As for the pictures, I am already so full, that I am resolved not to buy one more, unless by great accident I should meet with something surprisingly good, and as surprisingly cheap.
I should have thought that Lord-------, at his age, and with his parts and address, need not have been reduced to keep an opera w—–e, in such a place as Paris, where so many women of fashion generously serve as volunteers. I am still more sorry that he is in love with her; for that will take him out of good company, and sink him into bad; such as fiddlers, pipers, and ‘id genus omne’; most unedifying and unbecoming company for a man of fashion!
Lady Chesterfield makes you a thousand compliments. Adieu, my dear child.