from the men’s pay, or by commissaries appointed
by the government for that purpose, as in France and
Holland. By these inquiries you will be able
to talk military with military men, who, in every
country in Europe, except England, make at least half
of all the best companies. Your attending the
parades has also another good effect, which is, that
it brings you, of course, acquainted with the officers,
who, when of a certain rank and service, are generally
very polite, well-bred people, ‘et du bon ton’.
They have commonly seen a great deal of the world,
and of courts; and nothing else can form a gentleman,
let people say what they will of sense and learning;
with both which a man may contrive to be a very disagreeable
companion. I dare say, there are very few captains
of foot, who are not much better company than ever
Descartes or Sir Isaac Newton were. I honor and
respect such superior geniuses; but I desire to converse
with people of this world, who bring into company
their share, at least, of cheerfulness, good-breeding,
and knowledge of mankind. In common life, one
much oftener wants small money, and silver, than gold.
Give me a man who has ready cash about him for present
expenses; sixpences, shillings, half-crowns, and crowns,
which circulate easily: but a man who has only
an ingot of gold about him, is much above common purposes,
and his riches are not handy nor convenient. Have
as much gold as you please in one pocket, but take
care always to keep change in the other; for you will
much oftener have occasion for a shilling than for
a guinea. In this the French must be allowed to
excel all people in the world: they have ’un
certain entregent, un enjouement, un aimable legerete
dans la conversation, une politesse aisee et naturelle,
qui paroit ne leur rien couter’, which give society
all its charms. I am sorry to add, but it is
too true, that the English and the Dutch are the farthest
from this, of all the people in the world; I do by
no means except even the Swiss.
Though you do not think proper to inform me, I know
from other hands that you were to go to the Gohr with
a Comte Schullemburg, for eight or ten days only,
to see the reviews. I know also that you had a
blister upon your arm, which did you a great deal
of good. I know too, you have contracted a great
friendship with Lord Essex, and that you two were
inseparable at Hanover. All these things I would
rather have known from you than from others; and they
are the sort of things that I am the most desirous
of knowing, as they are more immediately relative to
yourself.
I am very sorry for the Duchess of Newcastle’s
illness, full as much upon your as upon her account,
as it has hindered you from being so much known to
the Duke as I could have wished; use and habit going
a great way with him, as indeed they do with most
people. I have known many people patronized,
pushed up, and preferred by those who could have given
no other reason for it, than that they were used to