forever a dirty, rough mineral, in the cabinets of
some few curious collectors. You have; I hope,
that solidity and cohesion of parts; take now as much
pains to get the lustre. Good company, if you
make the right use of it, will cut you into shape,
and give you the true brilliant polish. A propos
of diamonds: I have sent you by Sir James Gray,
the King’s Minister, who will be at Venice about
the middle of September, my own diamond buckles; which
are fitter for your young feet than for my old ones:
they will properly adorn you; they would only expose
me. If Sir James finds anybody whom he can trust,
and who will be at Venice before him, he will send
them by that person; but if he should not, and that
you should be gone from Venice before he gets there,
he will in that case give them to your banker, Monsieur
Cornet, to forward to you, wherever you may then be.
You are now of an age, at which the adorning your
person is not only not ridiculous, but proper and becoming.
Negligence would imply either an indifference about
pleasing, or else an insolent security of pleasing,
without using those means to which others are obliged
to have recourse. A thorough cleanliness in your
person is as necessary for your own health, as it
is not to be offensive to other people. Washing
yourself, and rubbing your body and limbs frequently
with a fleshbrush, will conduce as much to health
as to cleanliness. A particular attention to
the cleanliness of your mouth, teeth, hands, and nails,
is but common decency, in order not to offend people’s
eyes and noses.
I send you here inclosed a letter of recommendation
to the Duke of Nivernois, the French Ambassador at
Rome; who is, in my opinion, one of the prettiest
men I ever knew in my life. I do not know a better
model for you to form yourself upon; pray observe
and frequent him as much as you can. He will
show you what manners and graces are. I shall,
by successive posts, send you more letters, both for
Rome and Naples, where it will be your own fault entirely
if you do not keep the very best company.
As you will meet swarms of Germans wherever you go,
I desire that you will constantly converse with them
in their own language, which will improve you in that
language, and be, at the same time, an agreeable piece
of civility to them.
Your stay in Italy will, I do not doubt, make you
critically master of Italian; I know it may, if you
please, for it is a very regular, and consequently
a very easy language. Adieu! God bless you!
LETTER LXXV
London, July 20, O. S. 1749.
Dear boy: I wrote to Mr. Harte last
Monday, the 17th, O. S., in answer to his letter of
the 20th June, N. S., which I had received but the
day before, after an interval of eight posts; during
which I did not know whether you or he existed, and
indeed I began to think that you did not. By
that letter you ought at this time to be at Venice;
where I hope you are arrived in perfect health, after
the baths of Tiefler, in case you have made use of
them. I hope they are not hot baths, if your lungs
are still tender.