discover the true one, by the alteration it occasioned
in the countenance of the person. ’Volto
sciolto con pensieri stretti’, is a most useful
maxim in business. It is so necessary at some
games, such as ‘Berlan Quinze’,
etc.,
that a man who had not the command of his temper and
countenance, would infallibly be outdone by those who
had, even though they played fair. Whereas, in
business, you always play with sharpers; to whom,
at least, you should give no fair advantages.
It may be objected, that I am now recommending dissimulation
to you; I both own and justify it. It has been
long said, ’Qui nescit dissimulare nescit regnare’:
I go still further, and say, that without some dissimulation
no business can be carried on at all. It is
simulation
that is false, mean, and criminal: that is the
cunning which Lord Bacon calls crooked or left-handed
wisdom, and which is never made use of but by those
who have not true wisdom. And the same great
man says, that dissimulation is only to hide our own
cards, whereas simulation is put on, in order to look
into other people’s. Lord Bolingbroke, in
his “Idea of a Patriot King,” which he
has lately published, and which I will send you by
the first opportunity, says very justly that simulation
is a
stiletto,—not only an unjust
but an unlawful weapon, and the use of it very rarely
to be excused, never justified. Whereas dissimulation
is a shield, as secrecy is armor; and it is no more
possible to preserve secrecy in business, without
same degree of dissimulation, than it is to succeed
in business without secrecy. He goes on, and
says, that those two arts of dissimulation and secrecy
are like the alloy mingled with pure ore: a little
is necessary, and will not debase the coin below its
proper standard; but if more than that little be employed
(that is, simulation and cunning), the coin loses
its currency, and the coiner his credit.
Make yourself absolute master, therefore, of your
temper and your countenance, so far, at least, as
that no visible change do appear in either, whatever
you may feel inwardly. This may be difficult,
but it is by no means impossible; and, as a man of
sense never attempts impossibilities on one hand,
on the other, he is never discouraged by difficulties:
on the contrary, he redoubles his industry and his
diligence; he perseveres, and infallibly prevails at
last. In any point which prudence bids you pursue,
and which a manifest utility attends, let difficulties
only animate your industry, not deter you from the
pursuit. If one way has failed, try another;
be active, persevere, and you will conquer. Some
people are to be reasoned, some flattered, some intimidated,
and some teased into a thing; but, in general, all
are to be brought into it at last, if skillfully applied
to, properly managed, and indefatigably attacked in
their several weak places. The time should likewise
be judiciously chosen; every man has his ‘mollia
tempora’, but that is far from being all day
long; and you would choose your time very ill, if
you applied to a man about one business, when his head
was full of another, or when his heart was full of
grief, anger, or any other disagreeable sentiment.