your own hand. Never, from a mistaken economy,
buy a thing you do not want, because it is cheap;
or from a silly pride, because it is dear. Keep
an account in a book of all that you receive, and
of all that you pay; for no man who knows what he
receives and what he pays ever runs out. I do
not mean that you should keep an account of the shillings
and half-crowns which you may spend in chair-hire,
operas,
etc.: they are unworthy of the time,
and of the ink that they would consume; leave such
minutia to dull, penny-wise fellows; but remember,
in economy, as well as in every other part of life,
to have the proper attention to proper objects, and
the proper contempt for little ones. A strong
mind sees things in their true proportions; a weak
one views them through a magnifying medium, which,
like the microscope, makes an elephant of a flea:
magnifies all little objects, but cannot receive great
ones. I have known many a man pass for a miser,
by saving a penny and wrangling for twopence, who was
undoing himself at the same time by living above his
income, and not attending to essential articles which
were above his ‘portee’. The sure
characteristic of a sound and strong mind, is to find
in everything those certain bounds, ‘quos ultra
citrave nequit consistere rectum’. These
boundaries are marked out by a very fine line, which
only good sense and attention can discover; it is
much too fine for vulgar eyes. In manners, this
line is good-breeding; beyond it, is troublesome ceremony;
short of it, is unbecoming negligence and inattention.
In morals, it divides ostentatious puritanism from
criminal relaxation; in religion, superstition from
impiety: and, in short, every virtue from its
kindred vice or weakness. I think you have sense
enough to discover the line; keep it always in your
eye, and learn to walk upon it; rest upon Mr. Harte,
and he will poise you till you are able to go alone.
By the way, there are fewer people who walk well upon
that line, than upon the slack rope; and therefore
a good performer shines so much the more.
Your friend Comte Pertingue, who constantly inquires
after you, has written to Comte Salmour, the Governor
of the Academy at Turin, to prepare a room for you
there immediately after the Ascension: and has
recommended you to him in a manner which I hope you
will give him no reason to repent or be ashamed of.
As Comte Salmour’s son, now residing at The
Hague, is my particular acquaintance, I shall have
regular and authentic accounts of all that you do
at Turin.
During your stay at Berlin, I expect that you should
inform yourself thoroughly of the present state of
the civil, military, and ecclesiastical government
of the King of Prussia’s dominions; particularly
of the military, which is upon a better footing in
that country than in any other in Europe.