along with them. The characters of kings and
great men are only to be learned in conversation;
for they are never fairly written during their lives.
This, therefore, is an entertaining and instructive
subject of conversation, and will likewise give you
an opportunity of observing how very differently characters
are given, from the different passions and views of
those who give them. Never be ashamed nor afraid
of asking questions: for if they lead to information,
and if you accompany them with some excuse, you will
never be reckoned an impertinent or rude questioner.
All those things, in the common course of life, depend
entirely upon the manner; and, in that respect, the
vulgar saying is true, ’That one man can better
steal a horse, than another look over the hedge.’
There are few things that may not be said, in some
manner or other; either in a seeming confidence, or
a genteel irony, or introduced with wit; and one great
part of the knowledge of the world consists in knowing
when and where to make use of these different manners.
The graces of the person, the countenance, and the
way of speaking, contribute so much to this, that I
am convinced, the very same thing, said by a genteel
person in an engaging way, and
gracefully and
distinctly spoken, would please, which would shock,
if
muttered out by an awkward figure, with a
sullen, serious countenance. The poets always
represent Venus as attended by the three Graces, to
intimate that even beauty will not do without:
I think they should have given Minerva three also;
for without them, I am sure learning is very unattractive.
Invoke them, then,
distinctly, to accompany all
your words and motions. Adieu.
P. S. Since I wrote what goes before, I have received
your letter, of no date, with the inclosed
state of the Prussian forces: of which, I hope,
you have kept a copy; this you should lay in a ‘portefeuille’,
and add to it all the military establishments that
you can get of other states and kingdoms: the
Saxon establishment you may, doubtless, easily find.
By the way, do not forget to send me answers to the
questions which I sent you some time ago, concerning
both the civil and the ecclesiastical affairs of Saxony.
Do not mistake me, and think I only mean that you
should speak elegantly with regard to style, and the
purity of language; but I mean, that you should deliver
and pronounce what you say gracefully and distinctly;
for which purpose I will have you frequently read
very loud, to Mr. Harte, recite parts of orations,
and speak passages of plays; for, without a graceful
and pleasing enunciation, all your elegancy of style,
in speaking, is not worth one farthing.