’Even were Mr Gazebee in Parliament—­and I do not see how it is probable that he should get there—­it would not make any difference.  You must remember, dearest, that I never was an advocate for the Moffat match.  I acquiesced in it, because mamma did so.  If I could have had my own way, I would adhere to all our old prescriptive principles.  Neither money nor position can atone to me for low birth.  But the world, alas! is retrograding; and, according to the new-fangled doctrines of the day, a lady of blood is not disgraced by allying herself to a man of wealth, and what may be called quasi-aristocratic position.  I wish it were otherwise; but so it is.  And, therefore, the match with Mr Moffat was not disgraceful, though it could not be regarded as altogether satisfactory.

’But with Mr Gazebee the matter would be altogether different.  He is a man earning his bread; honestly, I dare say, but in a humble position.  You say he is very respectable:  I do not doubt it; and so is Mr Scraggs, the butcher at Courcy.  You see, Augusta, to what such arguments reduce you.

’I dare say he may be nicer than Mr Moffat, in one way.  That is, he may have more small-talk at his command, and be more clever in all those little pursuits and amusements which are valued by ordinary young ladies.  But my opinion is, that neither I nor you would be justified in sacrificing ourselves for such amusements.  We have high duties before us.  It may be that the performance of those duties will prohibit us from taking a part in the ordinary arena of the feminine world.  It is natural that girls should wish to marry; and, therefore, those who are weak, take the first that come.  Those who have more judgement, make some sort of selection.  But the strongest-minded are, perhaps, those who are able to forgo themselves and their own fancies, and to refrain from any alliance that does not tend to the maintenance of high principles.  Of course, I speak of those who have blood in their veins.  You and I need not dilate as to the conduct of others.

’I hope what I have said will convince you.  Indeed, I know that it only requires that you and I should have a little cousinly talk on this matter to be quite in accord.  You must now remain at Greshamsbury till Mr Gazebee shall return.  Immediately that he does so, seek an interview with him; do not wait till he asks for it; then tell him, that when he addressed you, the matter had taken you so much by surprise, that you were not at the moment able to answer him, with that decision that the subject demanded.  Tell him, that you are flattered—­in saying this, however, you must keep a collected countenance, and be very cold in your manner—­but that family reasons would forbid you to avail yourself of his offer, even did no other cause prevent it.

’And then, dear Augusta, come to us here.  I know you will be a little down-hearted after going through this struggle; but I will endeavour to inspirit you.  When we are both together, you will feel more sensibly the value of that high position which you will preserve by rejecting Mr Gazebee, and will regret less acutely whatever you may lose.