“How funny little girls are!  From the time they’re little bits of things they talk about marriage—­whom they are going to marry, what sort of person it will be.  I think Cora and I began when she was about five and I not seven.  And as girls grow up, I don’t believe there was ever one who genuinely expected to be an old maid.  The most unattractive young girls discuss and plan and expect marriage just as much as the prettier and gayer ones.  The only way we can find out that men don’t want to marry us is by their not asking us.  We don’t see ourselves very well, and I honestly believe we all think—­way deep down—­that we’re pretty attractive.  At least, every girl has the idea, sometimes, that if men only saw the whole truth they’d think her as nice as any other girl, and really nicer than most others.  But I don’t believe I have any hallucinations of that sort about myself left.  I can’t imagine—­now—­any man seeing anything in me that would make him care for me.  I can’t see anything about me to care for, myself.  Sometimes I think maybe I could make a man get excited about me if I could take a startlingly personal tone with him from the beginning, making him wonder all sorts of you-and-I perhapses—­but I couldn’t do it very well probably—­oh, I couldn’t make myself do it if I could do it well!  And I shouldn’t think it would have much effect except upon very inexperienced men—­yet it does!  Now, I wonder if this is a streak of sourness coming out; I don’t feel bitter—­I’m just thinking honestly, I’m sure.

“Well, here I am facing it:  all through my later childhood, and all through my girlhood, I believe what really occupied me most—­with the thought of it underlying all things else, though often buried very deep—­was the prospect of my marriage.  I regarded it as a certainty:  I would grow up, fall in love, get engaged, and be married—­of course!  So I grew up and fell in love with You—­but it stops there, and I must learn how to be an Old Maid and not let anybody see that I mind it.  I know this is the hardest part of it, the beginning:  it will get easier by-and-by, of course.  If I can just manage this part of it, it’s bound not to hurt so much later on.

“Yes, I grew up and fell in love with You—­for you will always be You.  I’ll never, never get over that, my dear!  You’ll never, never know it; but I shall love You always till I die, and if I’m still Me after that, I shall keep right on loving you then, of course.  You see, I didn’t fall in love with you just to have you for myself.  I fell in love with You!  And that can never bother you at all nor ever be a shame to me that I love unsought, because you won’t know, and because it’s just an ocean of good-will, and every beat of my heart sends a new great wave of it toward you and Cora.  I shall find happiness, I believe, in service—­I am sure there will be times when I can serve you both.  I love you both and I can serve her for You and you for her.