And yet, as children went, the young Pontifexes were fortunate; there would be ten families of young people worse off for one better; they ate and drank good wholesome food, slept in comfortable beds, had the best doctors to attend them when they were ill and the best education that could be had for money.  The want of fresh air does not seem much to affect the happiness of children in a London alley:  the greater part of them sing and play as though they were on a moor in Scotland.  So the absence of a genial mental atmosphere is not commonly recognised by children who have never known it.  Young people have a marvellous faculty of either dying or adapting themselves to circumstances.  Even if they are unhappy—­very unhappy—­it is astonishing how easily they can be prevented from finding it out, or at any rate from attributing it to any other cause than their own sinfulness.

To parents who wish to lead a quiet life I would say:  Tell your children that they are very naughty—­much naughtier than most children.  Point to the young people of some acquaintances as models of perfection and impress your own children with a deep sense of their own inferiority.  You carry so many more guns than they do that they cannot fight you.  This is called moral influence, and it will enable you to bounce them as much as you please.  They think you know and they will not have yet caught you lying often enough to suspect that you are not the unworldly and scrupulously truthful person which you represent yourself to be; nor yet will they know how great a coward you are, nor how soon you will run away, if they fight you with persistency and judgement.  You keep the dice and throw them both for your children and yourself.  Load them then, for you can easily manage to stop your children from examining them.  Tell them how singularly indulgent you are; insist on the incalculable benefit you conferred upon them, firstly in bringing them into the world at all, but more particularly in bringing them into it as your own children rather than anyone else’s.  Say that you have their highest interests at stake whenever you are out of temper and wish to make yourself unpleasant by way of balm to your soul.  Harp much upon these highest interests.  Feed them spiritually upon such brimstone and treacle as the late Bishop of Winchester’s Sunday stories.  You hold all the trump cards, or if you do not you can filch them; if you play them with anything like judgement you will find yourselves heads of happy, united, God-fearing families, even as did my old friend Mr Pontifex.  True, your children will probably find out all about it some day, but not until too late to be of much service to them or inconvenience to yourself.

Some satirists have complained of life inasmuch as all the pleasures belong to the fore part of it and we must see them dwindle till we are left, it may be, with the miseries of a decrepit old age.