The Civilization of China eBook

Herbert Giles
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 179 pages of information about The Civilization of China.

The Civilization of China eBook

Herbert Giles
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 179 pages of information about The Civilization of China.
stand still wherever he pleases in a Chinese thoroughfare, but may even place his burden or barrow, as the fancy seizes him, sometimes right in the fairway, from which point he will coolly look on at the streams of foot-passengers coming and going, who have to make the best of their way round such obstructions.  It is partly perhaps on this account that friends who go for a stroll together never walk abreast but always in single file, shouting out their conversation for all the world to hear; this, too, even in the country, where a more convenient formation would often, but not always, be possible.  Shopkeepers may occupy the path with tables exposing their wares, and itinerant stall-keepers do not hesitate to appropriate a “pitch” wherever trade seems likely to be brisk.  The famous saying that to have freedom we must have order has not entered deeply into Chinese calculations.  Freedom is indeed a marked feature of Chinese social life; some small sacrifices in the cause of order would probably enhance rather than diminish the great privileges now enjoyed.

A few points are of importance in the social etiquette of indoor life, and should not be lightly ignored by the foreigner, who, on the other hand, would be wise not to attempt to substitute altogether Chinese forms and ceremonies for his own.  Thus, no Chinaman, and, it may be added, no European who knows how to behave, fails to rise from his chair on the entrance of a visitor; and it is further the duty of a host to see that his visitor is actually seated before he sits down himself.  It is extremely impolite to precede a visitor, as in passing through a door; and on parting, it is usual to escort him to the front entrance.  He must be placed on the left of the host, this having been the post of honour for several centuries, previous to which it was the seat to the right of the host, as with us, to which the visitor was assigned.  At such interviews it would not be correct to allude to wives, who are no more to be mentioned than were the queen of Spain’s legs.

One singular custom in connection with visits, official and otherwise, ignorance of which has led on many occasions to an awkward moment, is the service of what is called “guest-tea.”  At his reception by the host every visitor is at once supplied with a cup of tea.  The servant brings two cups, one in each hand, and so manages that the cup in his left hand is set down before the guest, who faces him on his right hand, while that for his master is carried across and set down in an exactly opposite sense.  The tea-cups are so handed, as it were with crossed hands, even when the host, as an extra mark of politeness, receives that intended for his visitor, and himself places it on the table, in this case being careful to use both hands, it being considered extremely impolite to offer anything with one hand only employed.  Now comes the point of the “guest-tea,” which, as will be seen, it is quite worth while to remember.  Shortly

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