Nor is he carried away by the greedy ambition of cities;
Where they of scanty possessions too often are given to aping,
Wives and daughters especially, those who are higher and richer.
Blessed be therefore thy son in his life of quiet employment;
Blessed the wife, of like mind with himself, whom he one day shall choose him.”
Thus he spoke; and scarce had he ended when entered
the mother,
Holding her son by the hand, and so led him up to
her husband.
“Father,” she said, “how oft when
we two have been chatting together,
Have we rejoiced in the thought of Hermann’s
future espousal,
When he should bring his bride to be the light of
our dwelling!
Over and over again the matter we pondered: this
maiden
Fixing upon for him first, and then that, with the
gossip of parents.
But that day is now come; and Heaven at last has the
maiden
Brought to him hither, and shown him; and now his
heart has decided.
Said we not always then he should have his own choice
in the matter?
Was it not just now thy wish that he might with lively
affection
Feel himself drawn to some maiden? The hour is
come that we hoped for.
Yes; he has felt and has chosen and come to a manly
decision.
That same maiden it is that met him this morning,
the stranger:
Say he may have her, or else, as he swears, his life
shall be single.”
“Give her me, father,” so added the son:
“my heart has elected
Clear and sure; she will be to you both the noblest
of daughters.”
But the father was silent. Then hastily rose
the good pastor,
Took up the word and said: “The moment
alone is decisive;
Fixes the life of man, and his future destiny settles.
After long taking of counsel, yet only the work of
a moment
Every decision must be; and the wise alone seizes
the right one.
Dangerous always it is comparing the one with the
other
When we are making our choice, and so confusing our
feelings.
Hermann is pure. From childhood up I have known
him, and never
E’en as a boy was he wont to be reaching for
this and the other:
What he desired was best for him too, and he held
to it firmly.
Be not surprised and alarmed that now has appeared
of a sudden,
What thou hast wished for so long. It is true
that the present appearance
Bears not the form of the wish, exactly as thou hadst
conceived it:
For our wishes oft hide from ourselves the object
we wish for;
Gifts come down from above in the shapes appointed
by Heaven.
Therefore misjudge not the maiden who now of thy dearly
beloved,
Good and intelligent son has been first to touch the
affections:
Happy to whom at once his first love’s hand
shall be given,
And in whose heart no tenderest wish must secretly
languish.
Yes: his whole bearing assures me that now his
fate is decided.
Genuine love matures in a moment the youth into manhood;
He is not easily moved; and I fear that if this be
refused him,
Sadly his years will go by, those years that should
be the fairest,”