from men, but they are entitled to no observance which is incompatible with truth.  Women, by the conventional laws of society, are allowed to exact much from men, but they are allowed to exact nothing for which they should not make some adequate return.  It is well that a man should kneel in spirit before the grace and weakness of a woman, but it is not well that he should kneel either in spirit or body if there be neither grace nor weakness.  A man should yield everything to a woman for a word, for a smile—­to one look of entreaty.  But if there be no look of entreaty, no word, no smile, I do not see that he is called upon to yield much.

The happy privileges with which women are at present blessed have come to them from the spirit of chivalry.  That spirit has taught man to endure in order that women may be at their ease; and has generally taught women to accept the ease bestowed on them with grace and thankfulness.  But in America the spirit of chivalry has sunk deeper among men than it has among women.  It must be borne in mind that in that country material well-being and education are more extended than with us; and that, therefore, men there have learned to be chivalrous who with us have hardly progressed so far.  The conduct of men to women throughout the States is always gracious.  They have learned the lesson.  But it seems to me that the women have not advanced as far as the men have done.  They have acquired a sufficient perception of the privileges which chivalry gives them, but no perception of that return which chivalry demands from them.  Women of the class to which I allude are always talking of their rights, but seem to have a most indifferent idea of their duties.  They have no scruple at demanding from men everything that a man can be called on to relinquish in a woman’s behalf, but they do so without any of that grace which turns the demand made into a favor conferred.

I have seen much of this in various cities of America, but much more of it in New York than elsewhere.  I have heard young Americans complain of it, swearing that they must change the whole tenor of their habits toward women.  I have heard American ladies speak of it with loathing and disgust.  For myself, I have entertained on sundry occasions that sort of feeling for an American woman which the close vicinity of an unclean animal produces.  I have spoken of this with reference to street cars, because in no position of life does an unfortunate man become more liable to these anti-feminine atrocities than in the center of one of these vehicles.  The woman, as she enters, drags after her a misshapen, dirty mass of battered wirework, which she calls her crinoline, and which adds as much to her grace and comfort as a log of wood does to a donkey when tied to the animal’s leg in a paddock.  Of this she takes much heed, not managing it so that it may be conveyed up the carriage with some decency, but striking it about against men’s legs, and heaving