One of these daughters, Caroline Sophia Susanna Henrietta Wilhelmina, born in Elberfeld on the 2d of March, 1796, was still a babe in arms at the time of the family emigration.  She was a tall, fair, handsome girl, not long past her fifteenth birthday when she became a wife.  Her husband, John Hecker, was nearly twice her age, having been born in Wetzlar, Prussia, May 7, 1782.  He was the son of another John Hecker, a brewer by trade, who married the daughter of a Colonel Schmidt.  Both parents were natives of Wetzlar.  Their son learned the business of a machinist and brass-founder, and emigrated to America in 1800.  He was married to Caroline Freund in the Old Dutch Church in the Swamp, July 21, 1811.  He died in New York, in the house of his eldest son, July 10, 1860.

Events proved John Hecker to have been equally fortunate and sagacious in his choice of a wife.  At the time of their marriage he was thrifty and well-to-do.  At one period he owned a flourishing brass-foundry in Hester Street, and during his early married life his prosperity was uninterrupted.  But before many years had passed his business declined, and from one cause and another he never succeeded in re-establishing it.  This misfortune, occurring while even the eldest of the sons was still a lad, might easily have proved irreparable in more senses than one.  But the very fact that the ordinary gates to learning were so soon closed against these children caused the natural tendency they had toward knowledge to impel them all the more strongly in that shorter road to practical wisdom which leads through labor and experience.  The Hecker brothers were all hard at work while still mere children, and before John, the eldest, had attained to legal manhood, they had fixed the solid foundations of an enduring prosperity, and all need of further exertion on the part of their parents was over for ever.

Isaac Thomas Hecker, the third son and youngest child of this couple, was born in New York at a house in Christie Street, between Grand and Hester, December 18, 1819, when his mother was not yet twenty-four.  He survived her by twelve years only, she dying at the residence of her eldest son’s widow in 1876, in the full possession of faculties which must have been of no common order.  From her, and through her from Engel Freund, who was what is called “a character,” Father Hecker seems to have derived many of his life-long peculiarities.  “I never knew a son so like his mother,” writes to us one who had an intimate acquaintance with both of them for more than forty years.  She adds: 

“Mrs. Hecker was a woman of great energy of character and strong religious nature.  Her son, Father Hecker, inherited both of these traits, and there was the warmest sympathy between them.  He was her youngest son, her baby, she called him, but with all her tender love she had a holy veneration for his character as priest.