In 1836 her hand was asked in marriage by Prince Nicolaus von Sayn-Wittgenstein.  She thrice refused, but finally accepted him at her father’s instigation.  The prince was a handsome but otherwise commonplace man, and not at all the husband for this charming, mentally alert and finely strung woman.  The one happiness that came to her through this marriage was her daughter Marie.

Liszt came to Kiew on a concert tour in February, 1847.  He announced a charity concert, for which he received a contribution of one hundred rubles from Princess Carolyne.  He already had heard other, but she had been described to him as a miserly and peculiar person.  The gift surprised him the more for this.  He called on her to thank her, found her a brilliant conversationalist, was charmed with her in every way, and concluded that what the gossips considered peculiarities were merely the evidences of an original and positive mentality.  Upon the woman, who was in revolt against the restraints of an unhappy married life, Liszt, from whose eyes shone the divine spark, who was as much au fait in the salon as at the piano, and who already had been worshipped by a long succession of women, made a deep impression.  Thus they were drawn to each other at this very first meeting.

When, a little later, Liszt took her into his confidence regarding his ambition to devote more time to composition, and communicated to her his idea of composing a symphony on Dante’s “Divine Comedy” with scenic illustrations, she offered to pay the twenty thousand thalers which these would cost.  Liszt subsequently changed his mind regarding the need of scenery to his “Dante,” but the Princess’s generous offer increased his admiration for her.  It was a tribute to himself as well as to his art, and an expression of her confidence in his genius as a composer (shared at that time by but few) which could not fail to touch him deeply.  It at once created a bond of artistic and personal sympathy between them.  She was carried away by his playing, and the programme of his first concert which she attended was treasured by her, and after her death, forty years later, was found among her possessions by her daughter.

[Illustration:  Liszt at the piano.]

If it was not love at first sight between these two, it must have been nearly that.  Liszt came to Kiew in February, 1847.  The same month Carolyne invited him to visit her at one of her country seats, Woronince.  Brief correspondence already had passed between them.  To his fifth note he adds, as a postscript, “I am in the best of humor . . . and find, now that the world contains Woronince, that the world is good, very good!”

The great pianist continued his tour to Constantinople.  When he writes to the Princess from there, he already “is at her feet.”  Later in the same year he is hers “heart and soul.”  Early the following year he quotes for her these lines from “Paradise Lost:”