and act as if personal comfort were the highest thing
in their estimation. Yet, driven thus to the
wall, forced to make such uncomfortable confessions,
our supposed man does not like his friends one whit
the less; nay, more, he is aware that if they were
very superior and faultless persons he would not be
conscious of so much kindly feeling towards them.
The tide of friendship does not rise high on the bank
of perfection. Amiable weaknesses and shortcomings
are the food of love. It is from the roughnesses
and imperfect breaks in a man that you are able to
lay hold of him. If a man be an entire and perfect
chrysolite, you slide off him and fall back into ignorance.
My friends are not perfect—no more am
I—and so we suit each other admirably.
Their weaknesses keep mine in countenance, and so
save me from humiliation and shame. We give
and take, bear and forbear; the stupidity they utter
to-day salves the recollection of the stupidity I uttered
yesterday; in their want of wit I see my own, and
so feel satisfied and kindly disposed. It is
one of the charitable dispensations of Providence that
perfection is not essential to friendship. If
I had to seek my perfect man, I should wander the
world a good while, and when I found him, and was
down on my knees before him, he would, to a certainty,
turn the cold shoulder on me—and so life
would be an eternal search, broken by the coldness
of repulse and loneliness. Only to the perfect
being in an imperfect world, or the imperfect being
in a perfect world, is everything irretrievably out
of joint.
On a certain shelf in the bookcase which stands in
the room in which I am at present sitting—bookcase
surmounted by a white Dante, looking out with blind,
majestic eyes—are collected a number of
volumes which look somewhat the worse for wear.
Those of them which originally possessed gilding
have had it fingered off, each of them has leaves turned
down, and they open of themselves at places wherein
I have been happy, and with whose every word I am
familiar as with the furniture of the room in which
I nightly slumber, each of them has remarks relevant
and irrelevant scribbled on their margins. These
favourite volumes cannot be called peculiar glories
of literature; but out of the world of books have I
singled them, as I have singled my intimates out of
the world of men. I am on easy terms with them,
and feel that they are no higher than my heart.
Milton is not there, neither is Wordsworth; Shakspeare,
if he had written comedies only, would have been there
to a certainty, but the presence of the five
great tragedies,—Hamlet, Othello, Macbeth,
Lear, Antony and Cleopatra—for this last
should be always included among his supreme efforts—has
made me place him on the shelf where the mighty men
repose, himself the mightiest of all. Reading
Milton is like dining off gold plate in a company
of kings; very splendid, very ceremonious, and not
a little appalling. Him I read but seldom, and