Captain Lothrop was as remarkable for the benevolence of his spirit and the tenderness of his nature as for his wisdom in council, energy in command, or gallantry in battle.  Indeed, his character in private life was so beautiful and lovable, that I cannot refrain from leading you into the recesses of his domestic circle.  It presents a picture of rare attractiveness.  He had no children.  His wife was a kind and amiable person.  They longed for objects upon which to gratify the yearnings of their affectionate hearts.  He had a large estate.  His character became known to the neighbors and the country people around.  If there was an occurrence calling for commiseration anywhere in the vicinity, it was managed to bring it to his notice.  Orphan children were received into his household, and brought up with parental care and tenderness.  Many were, in this way, the objects of his charity and affections.  Persons especially, who were in any degree connected with his wife’s family, naturally conceived the desire to have him adopt their children.  This was the case particularly with those who were in straitened circumstances.  Others, knowing his disposition, would bring tales of distress and destitution to his ears.  Some, perhaps, turned out to be unworthy of his goodness.  In one instance, at least, where he had taken a child into his family in its infancy, touched by appeals made to his compassion by the parents, brought it up carefully, watched over its education, and become attached to it, when it had reached an age to be serviceable, the parents claimed and insisted on their right to it, and took it away, much against his will.  But the good man’s benevolence was not impaired, nor the stream of his affectionate charities checked, by the misconduct or ingratitude of his wards or of their friends.  His plan was to do all the good in his power to the children thus brought into his family, to prepare them for usefulness, and start them favorably in life.  In the case of boys, he would get them apprenticed to worthy people in useful callings.  At the time of his death, there were two grown-up members of his family, who appear to have been foisted upon his care in their earliest childhood.  But there was no blame to be attached to them in the premises; and they were regarded by him with much affection.  There were no relations of his own in this country in need of charitable aid or without adequate parental protection; and it was not strange that several of his wife’s connections should have availed themselves of the benefit of his generous disposition.  She herself gives a very interesting account of an instance of this sort, in a deposition found wrapped up among some old papers in the county court-house.  The object of the statement was to explain how a connection of hers became domesticated in the family.