the ties of blood, these feelings are already in existence;
but what I desire to present is the duty of always
making these feelings apparent in common intercourse,
for just in proportion to the neglect of this, is
the family influence on the happiness of its members
affected. If you would combine the greatest possible
elements of unhappiness you could not imagine any
which would surpass that of a family of brothers and
sisters, hating each other, yet compelled to live together
as a family, where no word of kindness passes from
one to the other, where no act of kindness draws out
the affections, where the success of one only excites
the envy of the others; no smile lights up the countenance;
no gladness found in each other’s society, the
aim of each to thwart and annoy the other. In
such dwellings there would be no light, no peace, no
joy, no pleasant sounds. Indeed such a picture
does not belong to even our fallen world, it is the
description of the misery of the lost. A picture,
perhaps, of a family in hell. The further, therefore,
from this, my friends, that you can remove your own
family, the greater will be your own happiness and
comfort, and you must remember that the responsibility
of this rests upon each one of you individually.
Let your brother or sister never receive an unkind,
unbrotherly or unsisterly act, never perceive an unaffectionate
look, nor experience an uncourteous neglect, and you
will do very much towards making your family the abode
of as perfect peace as can be enjoyed upon earth, and
cause it to present the loveliest and most attractive
scene this side of heaven. Now, I will freely
acknowledge that in urging this duty upon brothers
and sisters, I am setting you upon no easy work; I
know that it will require often much self-denial,
much restraint in word and deed, but the gain will
far more than repay the struggle.
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THE FAMILY PROMISE.
BY JOSEPH McCARRELL, D.D.
The promise is to you and to your children, and to
all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our
God shall call. From the beginning of the creation
God has dealt with man as a social being. He made
them a male and a female, and the first institution
in innocence and in Eden, was marriage. In his
dealings with Adam, God deals with the race. He
made with them his covenant when he made it with Him.
Hence, by the disobedience of one, many were made
sinners; in Adam all die. With Noah he made a
covenant never to drown the world again by the waters
of a flood. This promise belongs to the children
of Noah, the human race.