can for a moment reflect upon the love and care which
he has received from his parents, without a moved
heart, although he can never know their full power
until he himself becomes a parent; but here indeed
lies the difficulty, and here do I find the necessity
of dwelling for a moment upon this point. Children
do not reflect upon this. Few ever sit down, calmly
and consecutively, to recall the parental kindness,
and therefore, would I ask each of you, my young friends,
that you may obey this injunction, and be kindly affectionate
towards father and mother, to consider their kindness
to you. Why, if you look at it, you will hardly
be able to find that they have any other care in the
world, or any other object, than yourselves.
What does that kind mother of yours do which is not
for her children? does she not seem always to be thinking
of you? have you never noticed how her eye brightens
with delight when you or any of your brothers or sisters
do right, or even when she looks around on the health
and happiness of her children? and, when you or any
of her dear ones are ill, how sad she looks, how her
cheek will become pale, and how she will watch and
wait at the bed-side of her child, how her own hand
gives the medicine, how nothing can call her away from
home, no friends, no amusements, often not even the
church and Sabbath-day, and if she did go to church
while you were ill, she went there to pray that God
would make you well. And I would have you also
think of the large surrenders of ease, time and fortune
which your father is daily making for the benefit
and comfort of his children. How many fathers
will compass land and sea in quest of provision for
them, and in order to give them name and station in
society? How many adventurously plow the ocean
in their behalf? How many live for years in exile,
and in the estrangement of a foreign land, with nothing
to soothe them in the midst of their toil and fatigue,
but the image of their dear and distant home?
How many toil and plan, day after day, and year after
year, from early morn until late at night, for no
other object than to gather wealth, which in their
love they expect and intend their children to enjoy,
when they themselves have gone down to the grave!
Oh, my young friends, though ye have not perhaps thought
of it, yet the devotedness of a parent to his children,
in the common every-day duties and comforts of life,
often equals and surpasses that which history has
recorded for us of the sublimest heroism.
It would often seem utterly impossible to wear out a father’s affection or a mother’s love, and many a child, after the perversities and losses of a misdirected manhood, has found himself welcomed back again to the paternal home, with all the unquenched and unextinguishable kindness of his early and dependent childhood; welcomed even amid the hardships of poverty, with which declining years and his own hand, perhaps, have united to surround the whitening heads of the authors of his being.