Mothers! Where shall the youthful spirit look for the saving influence of love, if not to you? The young heart craves sympathy. It must have it—it will have it. If not found at home, it will be found in the streets, and oh, what danger lurks there! Fathers and mothers—see to it, that if your child’s heart cease to beat, your own break not with the remembrance of words and looks, that bite like a serpent and sting like an adder!
ELLEN ELLISON.
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CHINESE DAUGHTERS.
Changhai, Aug. 15th, 1851.
MY DEAR MRS. WHITTELSEY:
In order to keep before my own mind a deep interest for this people, and to awaken corresponding sympathies in my native land, I make short monthly memorandums of my observations among the Chinese. They are indeed a singular people, with manners and customs peculiar to themselves; and it would seem that, in domestic life, every practice was the opposite of our own; but in the kindly feelings of our nature, those whom I have seen brought under the influence of Christian cultivation, are as susceptible as those of any nation on earth. At first they are exceedingly suspicious of you,—they do not, they cannot understand your motives in your efforts to do them good; and it is not until by making one’s actions consistent with our words, and by close observation on their part, that you enjoy their confidence.
Since I last wrote I have been quite indisposed. During my husband’s absence in committee my nurses were Chinese girls, one eleven, the other thirteen years of age. No mother who had bestowed the greatest care and cultivation upon her daughters, could have had more affectionate attention than I had from these late heathen girls,—they were indeed unto me as daughters,—every want was anticipated, and every thing that young, affectionate hearts could suggest, was done to alleviate my pain. One has been four years, the other a year and a-half, under instruction. Christianity softens, subdues, and renders docile the human mind, before the dark folds of heathenism have deepened and thickened with increasing years.
One of these pupils, after reading in the New Testament the narrative of Christ’s sufferings, one day asks—“Why did Jesus come and suffer and be crucified?” I then explained to her as well as I could in her own tongue. She always seems thoughtful when she reads the Scriptures. Will some maternal association remember in prayer these Chinese girls?
During the current month a vile placard has been published against foreigners, and some of the pupils have been railed at by their acquaintances for being under our instruction. One, on returning from a visit to her friends, told me the bitter and wicked things that were said and written; I asked her if she had found them true? she said “No.” I asked her if foreigners, such as she had seen, spoke true or false? She said “always true.” Did they wish to kill and destroy the Chinese as the placard stated? She replied, “No; but they helped the poor Chinese when their own people would not.” The mothers were somewhat alarmed lest we were all to be destroyed. We told them there was nothing to fear, and their confidence remained unshaken.