you like himself, and you will be happy, and His own
Spirit will make you holy. Let us ask Him to do
it,” and she knelt by her bedside, and her son
placed himself beside her. It was no new thing
for him to pray with this devoted mother. Often
had she been with him to the throne of grace, when
his youthful troubles or faults had made him feel
the need of an Almighty helper and friend, but never
had he come before with such an earnest desire to obtain
the gift of that blessed Spirit, to subdue and change
his heart and make him like his Savior. When
they rose from prayer he sought his own room.
He felt unable to go to school, and his mother hoped
the impression would be more lasting, if he thought
it over in the solitude of his own chamber, and she
had much reason afterward to hope that this solemn
afternoon was the beginning of good days to the soul
of her child. As she looked anxiously at the
expression of his countenance when the family assembled
at the tea-table, she was pleased to notice, though
an air of sadness hung around him, he was subdued,
gentle, and affectionate, and she hoped much from
this severe contest with his besetting sin. His
father said little, and soon hurried away to a business
engagement for the evening. Mr. Arnold was a
lawyer, a gentleman and a professing Christian, and
though never very strongly beloved, yet few of his
neighbors could tell why, or say aught against his
respectability and general excellence of character.
He was immersed in the cares of an extensive business,
and spent little time at home, and when there he seemed
to have no room in his busy heart for the prattle
of his children, no time to delight and improve them,
with the stores of knowledge he might have brought
forth from his treasury. If company were present,
he was polite and agreeable. If only his wife
and children, he said little, and that little was
chiefly confined to matters of domestic interest—what
they should have for dinner—what schools
the children should attend—or the casual
mention of the most common news of the day. He
provided liberally for his family, what they should
eat and drink, and wherewithal they should be clothed
and instructed—but he took no pains to gain
their affections or their confidence, to enlarge their
ideas and awaken within them the thirst for knowledge,
and plant within them the deathless principles of
right and wrong—or even to inspire their
young minds with love and reverence for their Divine
Creator and Preserver. All this most important
duty of a father was left to his wife, and blessed
is the man who has such a wife and mother,
to whom to intrust the precious charge he neglects.
Most amiable and affectionate, intelligent and judicious,
and of ardent and cheerful piety, this excellent woman
devoted herself with untiring zeal to the training
of her cherished flock, and as she saw and felt with
poignant grief that she would have no help in this
greatest and first earthly duty, from him who had solemnly