are silent on the subject of the best and most suitable
subject for the purpose; is it the law-abiding citizen?
the restless reformer? or the artist and thinker?
Strange to say, the legend of the instinct of philoprogenitiveness,
intuitively conscious of the right way, is to-day
accepted even by scientists who are in sympathy neither
with Schopenhauer’s nor with any other metaphysic.
It is taken for granted that love can only serve the
purpose of the species; the fact that this theory
is both metaphysically and scientifically unsound is
ignored. For even leaving the genius of the species
out of the question, his intelligent comprehension
of the “composition of the next generation”
is nevertheless devoutly believed in. Even Nietzsche,
that arch-individualist, was completely under the
spell of this dogma, as is proved by many of his utterances,
for instance, by the well-known socialistic definition
of marriage as “the will of twain to create that
which is higher than its creators,” and also
by his theory that man is not an end in himself but
a bridge to something else. Nietzsche’s
pronouncement that he has not yet found the woman whom
he would like to be the mother of his children, echoes
the philosophy of Schopenhauer, the superstition of
the genius of philoprogenitiveness. The intrinsic
worth of love without any ulterior motive, without
a view to pleasure or to offspring, seems to have
been unknown to Nietzsche. Schopenhauer’s
hero puts the purport of love not in the actual individual,
but in a conception, and annihilates the value of
the individual and the unique. Every great emotion
is an end in itself, and whatever we may read into
it of “purposes” and “expediencies,”
is an invention, and independent of the emotion itself.
The aim of the purely spiritual love of the second
stage was not propagation, and yet it was an emotion
whose loftiness cannot easily be surpassed. With
the deification of woman love reached far beyond the
beloved into infinitude, and the phenomenon of the
love-death renders all the supposed generic purpose
of love impossible. But even if we ignored love
altogether and admitted the existence of the sexual
instinct only, its mysterious endeavour in the interest
of the species would still remain pure imagination,
and a conception far inferior to that of the winged
god of love. The instinct does not possess a
trace of “discretion,” takes no interest
in the weal and woe of humanity, but is utterly selfish,
seeking its own gratification and nothing else.
The theory which fits so well into Schopenhauer’s
metaphysics has, without it, neither sense nor support.
There is no instinct of philoprogenitiveness, but
rather a pairing-instinct, and in addition to this
a conscious desire for offspring. The difference
between these two instincts is great, for as a rule,
the pairing-instinct is not accompanied by a wish
for children (that it should be so unconsciously is
a theory not worth considering seriously), and the
longing for children very frequently exists without
any sexual desire; to manufacture an instinct out
of those two inherently dissimilar impulses is fantastic
metaphysics and not spiritual reality. The history
of antiquity furnishes ample proof of my contention,
for in the days of the remote past the sexual impulse
had its special domain, as well as the wish for progeny,
which was often regarded in the light of a duty.