which I expect every day. You may easily guess
at my uneasy situation. But I am, however, comforted
in some degree, by the glory that accrues to me from
it, and a reflection on the contempt I should otherwise
fall under. You won’t know what to make
of this speech; but, in this country, ’tis more
despicable to be married and not fruitful, than ’tis
with us to be fruitful before marriage. They
have a notion, that whenever a woman leaves off bringing
forth children, ’tis because she is too old
for that business, whatever her face says to the contrary.
This opinion makes the ladies here so ready to make
proofs of their youth, (which is as necessary, in order
to be a received beauty, as it is to shew the
proofs of nobility, to be admitted knights of Malta)
that they do not content themselves with using the
natural means, but fly to all sorts of quackeries,
to avoid the scandal of being past childbearing, and
often kill themselves by them. Without any exaggeration,
all the women of my acquaintance have twelve or thirteen
children; and the old ones boast of having had five
and twenty, or thirty a-piece, and are respected according
to the number they have produced.—When they
are with child, ’tis their common expression
to say, They hope God will be so merciful as to
send them two this time; and when I have asked
them sometimes, How they expected to provide for such
a flock as they desire? They answered, That
the plague will certainly kill half of them; which,
indeed, generally happens, without much concern to
the parents, who are satisfied with the vanity of
having brought forth so plentifully. The French
ambassadress is forced to comply with this fashion
as well as myself. She has not been here much
above a year, and has lain in once, and is big again.
What is most wonderful, is, the exemption they seem
to enjoy from the curse entailed on the sex.
They see all company on the day of their delivery,
and, at the fortnight’s end, return visits,
set out in their jewels and new clothes. I wish
I may find the influence of the climate in this particular.
But I fear I shall continue an English woman in that
affair, as well as I do in my dread of fire and plague,
which are two things very little feared here.
Most families have had their houses burnt down once
or twice, occasioned by their extraordinary way of
warming themselves, which is neither by chimnies (sic)
nor stoves, but by a certain machine called a tendour,
the height of two feet, in the form of a table, covered
with a fine carpet or embroidery. This is made
only of wood, and they put into it a small quantity
of hot ashes, and sit with their legs under the carpet.
At this table they work, read and very often, sleep;
and, if they chance to dream, kick down the tendour,
and the hot ashes commonly set the house on fire.
There were five hundred houses burnt in this manner
about a fortnight ago, and I have seen several of
the owners since, who seem not at all moved at so common
a misfortune. They put their goods into a bark,
and see their houses burn with great philosophy, their
persons being very seldom endangered, having no stairs
to descend.