THIS perpetual masquerade gives them entire liberty
of following their inclinations, without danger of
discovery. The most usual method of intrigue,
is, to send an appointment to the lover to meet the
lady at a Jew’s shop, which are as notoriously
convenient as our Indian-houses; and yet, even those
who don’t make use of them, do not scruple to
go to buy pennyworths, and tumble over rich goods,
which are chiefly to be found amongst that sort of
people. The great ladies seldom let their gallants
know who they are; and ’tis so difficult to
find it out, that they can very seldom guess at her
name, whom they have corresponded with for above half
a year together. You may easily imagine the
number of faithful wives very small in a country where
they have nothing to fear from a lover’s indiscretion,
since we see so many have the courage to expose themselves
to that in this world, and all the threatened punishment
of the next, which is never preached to the Turkish
damsels. Neither have they much to apprehend
from the resentment of their husbands; those ladies
that are rich, having all their money in their own
hands. Upon the whole, I look upon the Turkish
women, as the only free people in the empire; the
very divan pays respect to them; and the grand signior
himself, when a bassa is executed, never violates
the privileges of the haram, (or womens apartment)
which remains unsearched and entire to the widow.
They are queens of their slaves, whom the husband
has no permission so much as to look upon, except it
be an old woman or two that his lady chuses.
’Tis true, their law permits them four wives;
but there is no instance of a man of quality that
makes use of this liberty, or of a woman of rank that
would suffer it. When a husband happens to be
inconstant, (as those things will happen) he keeps
his mistress in a house apart, and visits her as privately
as he can, just as it is with you. Amongst all
the great men here, I only know the testerdar,
(i.e. a treasurer) that keeps a number of she slaves,
for his own use, (that is, on his own side of the
house; for a slave once given to serve a lady, is
entirely at her disposal) and he is spoke of as a libertine,
or what we should call a rake, and his wife won’t
see him, though she continues to live in his house.
Thus you see, dear sister, the manners of mankind
do not differ so Widely, as our voyage-writers would
make us believe. Perhaps, it would be more entertaining
to add a few surprising customs of my own invention;
but nothing seems to me so agreeable as truth, and
I believe nothing so acceptable to you. I conclude
therefore with repeating the great truth of my being,
Dear
sister, &c.