The ladies affect the French habit, and are more genteel
than those they imitate. I do not doubt but the
custom of Cizisbei’s has very much improved
their airs. I know not whether you ever heard
of those animals. Upon my word, nothing but my
own eyes could have convinced me there were any such
upon earth. The fashion began here, and is now
received all over Italy, where the husbands are not
such terrible creatures as we represent them.
There are none among them such brutes, as to pretend
to find fault with a custom so well established, and
so politically founded, since I am assured, that it
was an expedient, first found out by the senate, to
put an end to those family hatreds, which tore their
state to pieces, and to find employment for those
young men who were forced to cut one another’s
throats, pour passer le temps: and it has
succeeded so well, that since the institution of Cizisbei,
there has been nothing but peace and good humour amongst
them. These are gentlemen who devote themselves
to the service of a particular lady (I mean a married
one) for the virgins are all invisible, and confined
to convents: They are obliged to wait on her
to all public places, such as the plays, operas, and
assemblies, (which are called here Conversations)
where they wait behind her chair, take care of her
fan and gloves, if she plays, have the privilege of
whispers, &c.—When she goes out, they serve
her instead of lacquies (sic), gravely trotting by
her chair. ’Tis their business to prepare
for her a present against any day of public appearance,
not forgetting that of her own name [Footnote:
That is, the day of the saint after whom she is called.];
in short, they are to spend all their time and money
in her service, who rewards them accordingly (for
opportunity they want none) but the husband is not
to have the impudence to suppose this any other than
pure Platonic friendship. ’Tis true, they
endeavour to give her a Cizisbei of their own chusing;
but when the lady happens not to be of the same taste,
as that often happens, she never fails to bring it
about to have one of her own fancy. In former
times, one beauty used to have eight or ten of these
humble admirers; but those days of plenty and humility
are no more. Men grow more scarce and saucy,
and every lady is forced to content herself with one
at a time.
You may see in this place the glorious liberty of a republic, or more properly, an aristocracy, the common people being here as arrant slaves as the French; but the old nobles pay little respect to the doge, who is but two years in his office, and whose wife, at that very time, assumes no rank above another noble lady. ’Tis true, the family of Andrea Doria (that great man, who restored them that liberty they enjoy) have some particular privileges. When the senate found it necessary to put a stop to the luxury of dress, forbidding the wearing of jewels and brocades, they left them at liberty to make what