of excessive wealth is a very considerable gain in
the direction of temperance, and the whole education
of our youth imposes a law of moderation on them; moreover,
the eye of the rulers is required always to watch
over the young, and never to lose sight of them; and
these provisions do, as far as human means can effect
anything, exercise a regulating influence upon the
desires in general. But how can we take precautions
against the unnatural loves of either sex, from which
innumerable evils have come upon individuals and cities?
How shall we devise a remedy and way of escape out
of so great a danger? Truly, Cleinias, here is
a difficulty. In many ways Crete and Lacedaemon
furnish a great help to those who make peculiar laws;
but in the matter of love, as we are alone, I must
confess that they are quite against us. For if
any one following nature should lay down the law which
existed before the days of Laius, and denounce these
lusts as contrary to nature, adducing the animals
as a proof that such unions were monstrous, he might
prove his point, but he would be wholly at variance
with the custom of your states. Further, they
are repugnant to a principle which we say that a legislator
should always observe; for we are always enquiring
which of our enactments tends to virtue and which
not. And suppose we grant that these loves are
accounted by law to the honourable, or at least not
disgraceful, in what degree will they contribute to
virtue? Will such passions implant in the soul
of him who is seduced the habit of courage, or in
the soul of the seducer the principle of temperance?
Who will ever believe this? or rather, who will not
blame the effeminacy of him who yields to pleasures
and is unable to hold out against them? Will not
all men censure as womanly him who imitates the woman?
And who would ever think of establishing such a practice
by law? certainly no one who had in his mind the image
of true law. How can we prove that what I am saying
is true? He who would rightly consider these
matters must see the nature of friendship and desire,
and of these so-called loves, for they are of two
kinds, and out of the two arises a third kind, having
the same name; and this similarity of name causes
all the difficulty and obscurity.
Cleinias: How is that?
Athenian: Dear is the like in virtue to the like, and the equal to the equal; dear also, though unlike, is he who has abundance to him who is in want. And when either of these friendships becomes excessive, we term the excess love.
Cleinias: Very true.
Athenian: The friendship which arises from contraries is horrible and coarse, and has often no tie of communion; but that which arises from likeness is gentle, and has a tie of communion which lasts through life. As to the mixed sort which is made up of them both, there is, first of all, a difficulty in determining what he who is possessed by this third love desires; moreover, he is drawn different ways,