I am quite at a loss to account for such a conduct
on the principles of friendship; for when I daily
observe the noblest affections of the mind rooted
up by the sordid views of interest, I am in a great
doubt whether there is any real friendship and affection
in the world.” “My dear friend,”
replied Socrates, “this matter is very intricate;
for, if I mistake not, Nature has placed in men the
principles both of friendship and dissension.
Of friendship, because they have need of one another,
they have compassion of their miseries, they relieve
one another in their necessities, and they are grateful
for the assistances which they lend one another:
of dissension, because one and the same thing being
agreeable to many they contend to have it, and endeavour
to prejudice and thwart one another in their designs.
Thus strife and anger beget war, avarice stifles
benevolence, envy produces hate. But friendship
overcoming all these difficulties, finds out the virtuous,
and unites them together. For, out of a motive
of virtue they choose rather to live quietly in a
mean condition, than to gain the empire of the whole
earth by the calamities of war. When they are
pinched with hunger or thirst, they endure them with
constancy, till they can relieve themselves without
being troublesome to any one. When at any time
their desires for the enjoyments of love grow violent
and headstrong, then reason, or self-government, lays
hold on the reins, checks the impetuosity of the passion,
keeps it within due bounds, and will not allow them
to transgress the great rule of their duty.
They enjoy what is lawfully their own, and are so
far from usurping the rights and properties of others,
that they even give them part of what they have.
They agree their differences in such a manner, that
all are gainers, and no man has reason to complain.
They are never transported with anger so far as to
commit any action of which they may afterwards repent.
Envy is a passion they are ignorant of, because they
live in a mutual communication of what they possess,
and consider what belongs to their friends as things
in their own possession. From hence you see
that the virtuous do not only not oppose, but that
they aid one another in the employments of the Republic;
for they who seek for honours and great offices, only
to have an opportunity of enriching themselves, and
exercising a cruel tyranny, or to live an easy and
effeminate life, are certainly very wicked and unjust,
nor can they ever hope to live in friendship with any
man.
“But why should he who desires not any authority, but only the better to defend himself from the wicked, or to assist his friends, or be serviceable to his country; why should such a man, I say, not agree with another, whose intentions are the same with his own? Is it because he would be less capable to serve the Republic, if he had virtuous associates in the administration of affairs? If, in the tournaments and other games, the most strong were permitted to enter into