what then?” “What harm would it be to
you?” said Socrates. “It will show
your goodness, and that you love him, and make him
appear to be ill-natured, and not deserving to be
obliged by any man. But I am of opinion this
will not happen, and when he sees that you attack him
with civilities and good offices, I am certain he
will endeavour to get the better of you in so kind
and generous a contention. You are now in the
most wretched condition imaginable. It is as
if the hands which God has given us reciprocally to
aid each other were employed only to hinder one another,
or as if the feet, which by the divine providence were
made to assist each other to walk, were busied only
in preventing one another from going forward.
Would it not, then, be a great ignorance, and at the
same time a great misfortune, to turn to our disadvantage
what was made only for our utility? Now, it
is certain that God has given us brothers only for
our good; and that two brothers are a greater advantage
to one another than it can be to either of them to
have two hands, two feet, two eyes, and other the
like members, which are double in our body, and which
Nature has designed as brothers. For the hands
cannot at the same time reach two things several fathoms
distant from one another; the feet cannot stretch
themselves from the end of one fathom to another; the
eyes, which seem to discover from so far, cannot, at
the same time, see the fore and hind-part of one and
the same object; but when two brothers are good friends,
no distance of place can hinder them from serving each
other.”
CHAPTER IV. A DISCOURSE OF SOCRATES CONCERNING FRIENDSHIP.
I remember likewise a discourse which I have heard
him make concerning friendship, and that may be of
great use to instruct us by what means we ought to
procure ourselves friends, and in what manner we should
live with them. He said “that most men
agree that a true friend is a precious treasure, and
that nevertheless there is nothing about which we give
ourselves so little trouble as to make men our friends.
We take care,” said he, “to buy houses,
lands, slaves, flocks, and household goods, and when
we have them we endeavour to keep them, but though
a friend is allowed to be capable of affording us
a far greater happiness than any or all of these,
yet how few are solicitous to procure themselves a
friend, or, when they have, to secure his friendship?
Nay, some men are so stupid as to prefer their very
slaves to their friends. How else can we account
for their want of concern about the latter when either
in distress or sickness, and at the same time their
extreme anxiety for the recovery of the former when
in the same condition? For then immediately
physicians are sent for, and all remedies that can
be thought of applied to their relief. Should
both of them happen to die, they will regret more
the loss of their slave than of their friend, and shed