love to it. All this she does to the poor helpless
infant, so void of reason, that it knows not even
her that is so good to it, nor can ask her for its
own necessities. Full of tenderness for the welfare
and happiness of her babe, her whole time, day and
night, is spent in pleasing it, without the least
prospect of any recompense for all her fatigue.
After this, when the children are come to an age fit
to be instructed, the fathers teach them all the good
things they can for the conduct of their life; and
if they know any man more capable to instruct them
than themselves, they send them to him, without regard
to the expense, thus indicating by their whole conduct,
what sincere pleasure it would afford them to see
their children turn out men of virtue and probity.”
“Undoubtedly,” answered Lamprocles, “if
my mother had done all this, and an hundred times
as much, no man could suffer her ill-humours?”
“Do not you think,” said Socrates, “that
the anger of a beast is much more difficult to support
than that of a mother?” “Not of a mother
like her,” said Lamprocles. Socrates continued,
“What strange thing has she done to you?
Has she bit you, has she kicked you, as beasts do
when they are angry?” “She has a tongue
that no mortal can suffer,” answered Lamprocles.
“And you,” replied Socrates, “how
many crosses did you give her in your infancy by your
continual bawling and importunate actions? how much
trouble by night and by day? how much affliction in
your illnesses?” “At worst,” answered
Lamprocles, “I never did nor said anything that
might make her blush.” “Alas!”
said Socrates, “is it more difficult for you
to hear in patience the hasty expressions of your
mother, than it is for the comedians to hear what they
say to one another on the stage when they fall into
the most injurious reproaches? For they easily
suffer it, knowing well that when one reviles another,
he reviles him not with intent to injure him; and
when one threatens another, he threatens not with
design to do him any harm. You who are fully
convinced likewise of the intentions of your mother,
and who know very well that the hard words she gives
you do not proceed from hate, but that she has a great
affection for you, how can you, then, be angry with
her? Is it because you imagine that she wishes
you ill?” “Not in the least,” answered
Lamprocles; “I never had such a thought.”
“What!” continued Socrates; “a
mother that loves you; a mother who, in your sickness,
does all she can to recover your health, who takes
care that you want for nothing, who makes so many
vows to heaven for you; you say this is an ill mother?
In truth, if you cannot live with her, I will say
you cannot live at your ease. Tell me, in short,
do you believe you ought to have any reverence or
respect for any one whatever? Or do you not care
for any man’s favour and goodwill, neither for
that of a general, suppose, or of any other magistrate?”
“On the contrary,” said Lamprocles, “I
am very careful to gain the goodwill of all men.”