unconscious, but still potent and practical, on the
minds and characters of those about them, especially
of men. How potent and practical that influence
is, those know best who know most of the world and
most of human nature. There are those who consider—and
I agree with them—that the education of
boys under the age of twelve years ought to be entrusted
as much as possible to women. Let me ask—of
what period of youth and of manhood does not the same
hold true? I pity the ignorance and conceit
of the man who fancies that he has nothing left to
learn from cultivated women. I should have thought
that the very mission of woman was to be, in the highest
sense, the educator of man from infancy to old age;
that that was the work towards which all the God-given
capacities of women pointed; for which they were to
be educated to the highest pitch. I should have
thought that it was the glory of woman that she was
sent into the world to live for others, rather than
for herself; and therefore I should say—Let
her smallest rights be respected, her smallest wrongs
redressed: but let her never be persuaded to forget
that she is sent into the world to teach man—what,
I believe, she has been teaching him all along, even
in the savage state—namely, that there is
something more necessary than the claiming of rights,
and that is, the performing of duties; to teach him
specially, in these so-called intellectual days, that
there is something more than intellect, and that is—purity
and virtue. Let her never be persuaded to forget
that her calling is not the lower and more earthly
one of self-assertion, but the higher and the diviner
calling of self-sacrifice; and let her never desert
that higher life, which lives in others and for others,
like her Redeemer and her Lord.
And if any should answer that this doctrine would
keep woman a dependant and a slave, I rejoin—Not
so: it would keep her what she should be—the
mistress of all around her, because mistress of herself.
And more, I should express a fear that those who
made that answer had not yet seen into the mystery
of true greatness and true strength; that they did
not yet understand the true magnanimity, the true
royalty of that spirit, by which the Son of man came
not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to
give His life a ransom for many.
Surely that is woman’s calling—to
teach man: and to teach him what? To teach
him, after all, that his calling is the same as hers,
if he will but see the things which belong to his
peace. To temper his fiercer, coarser, more
self-assertive nature, by the contact of her gentleness,
purity, self-sacrifice. To make him see that
not by blare of trumpets, not by noise, wrath, greed,
ambition, intrigue, puffery, is good and lasting work
to be done on earth: but by wise self-distrust,
by silent labour, by lofty self-control, by that charity
which hopeth all things, believeth all things, endureth
all things; by such an example, in short, as women
now in tens of thousands set to those around them;
such as they will show more and more, the more their
whole womanhood is educated to employ its powers without
waste and without haste in harmonious unity.
Let the woman begin in girlhood, if such be her happy
lot—to quote the words of a great poet,
a great philosopher, and a great Churchman, William
Wordsworth—let her begin, I say—