This can be best secured by opening doors or windows,
or both, if necessary. This should be repeatedly
done daily in all weathers. At this season windows
should be open all the time; but the patient should
not be exposed to heavy draughts of air. Unnecessary
conversation is very distressing to most sick people,
even though the words be spoken low or in a whisper.
Some of you, no doubt, have had experience of this
fact. People kindly feel it a duty to visit the
sick. One does not know that another is going,
and each being impelled by a sense of duty, more go
than can be needed; and in determining who shall return
home, and who shall stay, conversations take place
that are often very distressing to the patient.
I remember a conversation I had with one of my own
patients once, who had just shortly before that time
recovered from a severe and protracted illness.
He said to me: “Brother John, do try to
set the people right about visiting the sick.
There is so much wrong about it the way it is carried
on now that very often more harm than good is done.
I remember,” said he, “one night while
I was sick. You had been coming, I think, near
three weeks, and I was beginning to mend. In the
evening I felt so much better I thought I was going
to rest well and get some good, natural sleep.
But about eight o’clock several neighbors came
in who got to talking; and seeing that I appeared
better they were encouraged to keep on, under the
impression that I was strong enough now to stand it.
Ah,” continued he, “they did not know they
were almost killing me; for I became restless; and
being very weak every nerve and fiber in my body seemed
to be excited into a state of distressful commotion,
from which I did not fairly recover during the next
three days. When you came again you gave very
strict orders not to allow more than one attendant
in the room at a time, aside from the nurse; and after
that I began to mend again and got well.”
One thing more, and I will leave this feature of the
subject. This, although last in order, is first
in importance, because it is the very basis of recovery.
I mean food and drink. Very sick patients, we
all know, can take, and require very little; but that
little is all-important both as to quality, and uniformity
as to quantity, and exact regularity as to time in
its administration. I will say here with emphasis,
that in no regard is it more important to comply punctiliously
with the instructions of an intelligent physician,
than in the nourishment given the sick. Without
nourishment, recovery in any case is impossible.
How very important, then, that it be rightly composed
and properly administered! Food should be made
as attractive to the patient as possible. This
should be carefully kept in mind when preparing it
for patients in a state of convalescence or recovery.
The nerves of the stomach at such time are often very
sensitive, and small excellencies in its quality will
be highly appreciated, and slight deficiencies as
readily detected.