days Selwyn, who went by the sobriquet of “Bosky,”
had many friends—not only among college
boys, but in London society. “You must judge
by what you feel yourself,” wrote Walpole to
General Conway, the soldier and statesman, on the
occasion of a severe illness from which Selwyn suffered
in 1741, “of what I feel for Selwyn’s recovery,
with the addition of what I have suffered from post
to post. But as I find the whole town have had
the same sentiments about him (though I am sure few
so strong as myself), I will not repeat what you have
heard so much. I shall write to him to-night,
though he knows, without my telling him, how very
much I love him. To you, my dear Harry, I am
infinitely obliged for the three successive letters
you wrote me about him, which gave me double pleasure,
as they showed your attention for me at a time that
you knew I must be so unhappy, and your friendship
for him."* But then came an interval in Selwyn’s
academic career—if such it may be called—since
he was certainly in Paris, much in want of money,
at the end of 1742 and the beginning of 1743.
It is probable that he had gone down from Oxford for
some irregularity; he ultimately was obliged to leave
the University for the same reason. For though
he re-entered his college in 1744 he only remained
there until the following year, when he was sent down
for an irreverent jest after dinner, having taken more
to drink than was good for him. His friends,
especially Sir Charles Hanbury Williams and some in
authority at Oxford also, thought that Selwyn was
harshly treated. Whether that were so or not this
was the end of his University career. It was
not a promising beginning of a life, and for some
years he was regarded as a good-natured spendthrift.
The death of his elder brother and father however in
1751 produced a sense of responsibility, but even before
this date he had been endeavouring to regain his father’s
goodwill. “I don’t yet imagine,”
wrote his friend, Sir William Maynard, shortly before
the death of Colonel J. Selwyn, “you are quite
established in his good opinion, and if his life is
but spared one twelvemonth you may have an opportunity
of convincing him you are in earnest in your promises
of a more frugal way of life.” As too often
happens the son had not time in his father’s
lifetime to regain his good opinion. Certainly
Selwyn made no attempt to give up pleasure, though
he was bent on it no doubt with a more frugal mind.
He was a man of fashion and of pleasure, having his
headquarters in London, paying visits now and again
to great country houses as Trentham and Croome.
To Bath he went as one goes now to the Riviera.
In Paris too he delighted; when in the autumn of 1762
the Duke of Bedford was in France negotiating the
treaty which is known in history as the Peace of Paris,
it was Selwyn who accompanied the Duchess when she
joined her husband. “She sets out the day
after to-morrow,” wrote Walpole on September
8th, “escorted to add gravity to the Embassy