13.  We have seen or heard of many extraordinary young men, who never ripened, or whose performance in actual life was not extraordinary.  When we see their air and mien, when we hear them speak of society, or books, or religion, we admire their superiority; they seem to throw contempt on our entire polity and social state; theirs is the tone of a youthful giant, who is sent to work revolutions.  But they enter an active profession, and the forming Colossus[358] shrinks to the common size of man.  The magic they used was the ideal tendencies, which always make the Actual ridiculous; but the tough world had its revenge the moment they put their horses of the sun to plow in its furrow.  They found no example and no companion, and their heart fainted.  What then?  The lesson they gave in their first aspirations, is yet true; and a better valor and a purer truth shall one day organize their belief.  Or why should a woman liken herself to any historical woman, and think, because Sappho,[359] or Sevigne,[360] or De Stael,[361] or the cloistered souls who have had genius and cultivation, do not satisfy the imagination and the serene Themis,[362] none can,—­certainly not she.  Why not?  She has a new and unattempted problem to solve, perchance that of the happiest nature that ever bloomed.  Let the maiden, with erect soul, walk serenely on her way, accept the hint of each new experience, search, in turn, all the objects that solicit her eye, that she may learn the power and the charm of her new-born being which is the kindling of a new dawn in the recesses of space.  The fair girl, who repels interference by a decided and proud choice of influences, so careless of pleasing, so wilful and lofty, inspires every beholder with somewhat of her own nobleness.  The silent heart encourages her; O friend, never strike sail to a fear!  Come into port greatly, or sail with God the seas.  Not in vain you live, for every passing eye is cheered and refined by the vision.

14.  The characteristic of a genuine heroism is its persistency.  All men have wandering impulses, fits and starts of generosity.  But when you have chosen your part, abide by it, and do not weakly try to reconcile yourself with the world.  The heroic cannot be the common, nor the common the heroic.  Yet we have the weakness to expect the sympathy of people in those actions whose excellence is that they outrun sympathy, and appeal to a tardy justice.  If you would serve your brother, because it is fit for you to serve him, do not take back your words when you find that prudent people do not commend you.  Adhere to your own act, and congratulate yourself if you have done something strange and extravagant, and broken the monotony of a decorous age.  It was a high counsel[363] that I once heard given to a young person,—­“Always do what you are afraid to do.”  A simple manly character need never make an apology, but should regard its past action with the calmness of Phocion,[364] when he admitted that the event of the battle was happy, yet did not regret his dissuasion from the battle.