heartily shook him by the hand to convince him you
were in your senses; which action he nevertheless put
to the credit of the soundness of your heart, and
not a bit to that of your head. You saw it—and
immediately, with a trifling flaw in the application
quite worthy yourself, reminded me of a passage in
a letter from Lord Bolingbroke to Swift, that “The
truest reflection, and at the same time the bitterest
satire, which can be made on the present age, is this,
that to think as you think, will make a man pass for
romantic. Sincerity, constancy, tenderness, are
rarely to be found. They are so much out of use,
that the man of mode imagines them to be out of nature.”
So insane and romantic, you added, are synonymous
terms to this incredulous, this matter-of-fact world,
that, like the unbelieving Thomas, trusts in, believes
in nothing that it does not touch and handle.
Your partiality for days of chivalry blinds you a
little. The men were splendid—women
shone with their reflected splendour—you
see them through an illuminated haze, and, as you
were not behind the curtain, imagine their minds as
cultivated as their beauty was believed to be great.
The mantle of chivalry hid all the wrongs, but the
particular ones from which they rescued them.
If the men are worse, our women are far better—more
like those noble Roman ladies, intellectual and high-minded,
whom you have ever esteemed the worthiest of history.
Then women were valued. Valerius Maximus gives
the reason why women had the upper-hand. After
the mother of Coriolanus and other Roman women had
preserved their country, how could the senate reward
them?—“Sanxit uti foeminis semita
viri cederent—permisit quoque his purpurea
veste et aureis uti segmentis.” It was sanctioned
by the senate, you perceive, that men should yield
the wall to the sex, in honour, and that they should
be allowed the distinction of purple vests and golden
borders—privileges the female world still
enjoy. Yet in times you love to applaud, the
paltry interference of men would have curtailed one
of these privileges. For a mandate was issued
by the papal legate in Germany in the 14th century,
decreeing, that “the apparel of women, which
ought to be consistent with modesty, but now, through
their foolishness, is degenerated into wantonness
and extravagance, more particularly the immoderate
length of their petticoats, with which they sweep the
ground, be restrained to a moderate fashion, agreeably
to the decency of the sex, under pain of the sentence
of excommunication.” “Velamina etiam
mulierum, quae ad verecundiam designandam eis sunt
concessa, sed nunc, per insipientiam earum, in lasciviam
et luxuriam excreverunt, it immoderata longitudo superpelliccorum
quibus pulverem trahunt, ad moderatum usum, sicut
decet verecundiam sexus, per excommunicationis sententiam
cohibeantur.”