“My second-uncle, he come on ship to San Flancisco.  I got to show him what to do,” explains Ah Sing.

If they like you very much, they tell you they will come back at the end of a month.  They never do, and by the end of the month the new man has so endeared himself to you that Ah Sing is only a pleasant memory.

The reasons for these sudden departures are two-fold as near as I can make out.  Ah Sing may not entirely like the place; or he may have received orders from his tong to move on—­probably the latter.  If both Ah Sing and his tong approve of you and the situation, he will stay with you for many years.  Our present man once remained but two days at a place.  The situation is an easy one; Toy did his work well; the relations were absolutely friendly.  After we had become intimate with Toy, he confided to us his reasons: 

“I don’ like stay at place where nobody laugh,” said he.

As servants the Chinese are inconceivably quick, deft, and clean.  One good man will do the work of two white servants, and do it better.  Toy takes care of us absolutely.  He cooks, serves, does the housework, and with it all manages to get off the latter part of the afternoon and nearly every evening.  At first, with recollections of the rigidly defined “days off” of the East, I was a little inclined to look into this.  I did look into it; but when I found all the work done, without skimping, I concluded that if the man were clever enough to save his time, he had certainly earned it for himself.  Systematizing and no false moves proved to be his method.

Since this is so, it follows, quite logically and justly, that the Chinese servant resents the minute and detailed supervision some housewives delight in.  Show him what you want done; let him do it; criticize the result—­but do not stand around and make suggestions and offer amendments.  Some housekeepers, trained to make of housekeeping an end rather than a means, can never keep Chinese.  This does not mean that you must let them go at their own sweet will:  only that you must try as far as possible to do your criticizing and suggesting before or after the actual performance.

I remember once Billy came home from some afternoon tea where she had been talking to a number of “conscientious” housekeepers of the old school until she had been stricken with a guilty feeling that she had been loafing on the job.  To be sure the meals were good, and on time; the house was clean; the beds were made; and the comforts of life seemed to be always neatly on hand; but what of that?  The fact remained that Billy had time to go horseback riding, to go swimming, to see her friends, and to shoot at a mark.  Every other housekeeper was busy from morning until night; and then complained that somehow or other she never could get finished up!  It was evident that somehow Billy was not doing her full duty by the sphere to which woman was called, etc.