She has the sympathy of every one of us, the girl who “means to,” for we also intend to do, and fail. Perhaps she learns from our vocabularies the words and phrases which so often appear in her own. “Tomorrow,” she says, and “I am going to,” “I intend” and “I mean some day to.” She enjoys the present but all that she hopes to do she puts into the future. She does not realize at first that the future always has a day of reckoning and that suddenly when one least expects it, the future meets her in the present and says, “How about this and this and this which you were going to do? The time is past. What now?” Sometimes with bitter tears, often with deep regret, always in half guilty fashion the girl answers, “Well, I really meant to do it, only—”
If the drifting girl who “meant to” is to be strengthened in character she must be helped to substitute “I have done it” for “I really meant to do it.”
The girl who continually “means to” and seldom “does,” is usually emotional, responsive, lovable and irresponsible. I remember a most interesting teacher in the last year of the grammar school who had just such a girl in her room. The girl admired her teacher greatly, and whenever she expressed the desire to read a new book, to have the class see a fine picture, to use certain material for the lesson in drawing or painting, the girl promised that the book should be brought, the picture would gladly be loaned by her father, the poppies or tulips she would get from her garden. Almost never was the promise fulfilled, still she continued to promise. One afternoon her teacher talked with her after school and showed her a list of twenty-one things she had promised to do and had not done. “I know