education of a gentleman;” and while many years
are spent by a girl in those decorative acquirements
which fit her for evening parties; not an hour is
spent by either in preparation for that gravest of
all responsibilities—the management of
a family. Is it that this responsibility is but
a remote contingency? On the contrary, it is sure
to devolve on nine out of ten. Is it that the
discharge of it is easy? Certainly not:
of all functions which the adult has to fulfil, this
is the most difficult. Is it that each may be
trusted by self-instruction to fit himself, or herself,
for the office of parent? No: not only is
the need for such self-instruction unrecognised, but
the complexity of the subject renders it the one of
all others in which self-instruction is least likely
to succeed. No rational plea can be put forward
for leaving the Art of Education out of our
curriculum.
Whether as bearing on the happiness of parents themselves,
or whether as affecting the characters and lives of
their children and remote descendants, we must admit
that a knowledge of the right methods of juvenile culture,
physical, intellectual, and moral, is a knowledge of
extreme importance. This topic should be the
final one in the course of instruction passed through
by each man and woman. As physical maturity is
marked by the ability to produce offspring, so mental
maturity is marked by the ability to train those offspring.
The subject which involves all other subjects,
and therefore the subject in which education should
culminate, is the Theory and Practice of Education.
In the absence of this preparation, the management
of children, and more especially the moral management,
is lamentably bad. Parents either never think
about the matter at all, or else their conclusions
are crude and inconsistent. In most cases, and
especially on the part of mothers, the treatment adopted
on every occasion is that which the impulse of the
moment prompts: it springs not from any reasoned-out
conviction as to what will most benefit the child,
but merely expresses the dominant parental feelings,
whether good or ill; and varies from hour to hour as
these feelings vary. Or if the dictates of passion
are supplemented by any definite doctrines and methods,
they are those handed down from the past, or those
suggested by the remembrances of childhood, or those
adopted from nurses and servants—methods
devised not by the enlightenment, but by the ignorance,
of the time. Commenting on the chaotic state
of opinion and practice relative to family government,
Richter writes:—
“If the secret variances of a
large class of ordinary fathers were brought
to light, and laid down as a plan of studies and reading,
catalogued for a moral education, they would run
somewhat after this fashion:—In the
first hour ’pure morality must be read to the
child, either by myself or the tutor;’ in
the second, ’mixed morality, or that which
may be applied to one’s own advantage;’