on it by this or that treatment. What can be
more inevitable than the disastrous results we see
hourly arising? Lacking knowledge of mental phenomena,
with their cause and consequences, her interference
is frequently more mischievous than absolute passivity
would have been. This and that kind of action,
which are quite normal and beneficial, she perpetually
thwarts; and so diminishes the child’s happiness
and profit, injures its temper and her own, and produces
estrangement. Deeds which she thinks it desirable
to encourage, she gets performed by threats and bribes,
or by exciting a desire for applause: considering
little what the inward motive may be, so long as the
outward conduct conforms; and thus cultivating hypocrisy,
and fear, and selfishness, in place of good feeling.
While insisting on truthfulness, she constantly sets
an example of untruth by threatening penalties which
she does not inflict. While inculcating self-control,
she hourly visits on her little ones angry scoldings
for acts undeserving of them. She has not the
remotest idea that in the nursery, as in the world,
that alone is the truly salutary discipline which
visits on all conduct, good and bad, the natural consequences—the
consequences, pleasurable or painful, which in the
nature of things such conduct tends to bring.
Being thus without theoretic guidance, and quite incapable
of guiding herself by tracing the mental processes
going on in her children, her rule is impulsive, inconsistent,
mischievous; and would indeed be generally ruinous
were it not that the overwhelming tendency of the
growing mind to assume the moral type of the race
usually subordinates all minor influences.
And then the culture of the intellect—is
not this, too, mismanaged in a similar manner?
Grant that the phenomena of intelligence conform to
laws; grant that the evolution of intelligence in a
child also conforms to laws; and it follows inevitably
that education cannot be rightly guided without a
knowledge of these laws. To suppose that you can
properly regulate this process of forming and accumulating
ideas, without understanding the nature of the process,
is absurd. How widely, then, must teaching as
it is differ from teaching as it should be; when hardly
any parents, and but few tutors, know anything about
psychology. As might be expected, the established
system is grievously at fault, alike in matter and
in manner. While the right class of facts is
withheld, the wrong class is forcibly administered
in the wrong way and in the wrong order. Under
that common limited idea of education which confines
it to knowledge gained from books, parents thrust primers
into the hands of their little ones years too soon,
to their great injury. Not recognising the truth
that the function of books is supplementary—that
they form an indirect means to knowledge when direct
means fail—a means of seeing through other
men what you cannot see for yourself; teachers are
eager to give second-hand facts in place of first-hand