jewel to make her sit down, another to make her begin
to eat, and another before she will drink. While
the betrothed pair are drinking together an old man
rises, and in a loud voice calls all to silence, as
he wishes to speak. He says: “So-and-so
marries so-and-so, but on the condition that if the
man should through dissolute conduct fail to support
his wife, she will leave him, and shall not be obliged
to return anything of the dowry that he has given
her; and she shall have freedom and permission to
marry another man. And therefore, should the
woman betray her husband, he can take away the dowry
that he gave her, leave her, and marry another woman.
Be all of you witnesses for me to this compact.”
When the old man has ended his speech, they take a
dish filled with clean, uncooked rice, and an old woman
comes and joins the hands of the pair, and lays them
upon the rice. Then, holding their hands thus
joined, she throws the rice over all those who are
present at the banquet. Then the old woman gives
a loud shout, and all answer her with a similar shout;
and the marriage contract or ceremony is completed.
Up to this time, her parents do not allow the young
couple to eat or sleep together; but by performing
this ceremony they deliver her up as his wife.
But if, after the marriage contract has been negotiated
by a third party, the man who seeks marriage should
repent of the bargain and seek to marry another woman,
he loses the earnest-money that he has given, even
if he has had no intercourse with the former; because
when they commence negotiations for the marriage they
begin to give the dowry. If a man say in conversation,
or at a drunken feast, “I wish to marry so-and-so,
daughter of so-and-so,” and afterward break
his promise and refuse to marry her, he is fined for
it; and they take away a great part of his property.
In regard to the dowry, neither the husband nor the
wife can enjoy it until they have children; for until
then it belongs to the father-in-law. If the
bridegroom is not of age to marry, or the bride is
too young, both still work in the house of the father-in-law
until they are of age to live together.
Marriage among the timaguas. The timaguas
do not follow these usages, because they have no property
of their own. They do not observe the ceremony
of joining hands over the dish of rice, through respect
for the chiefs; for that ceremony is for chiefs only.
Their marriage is accomplished when the pair unite
in drinking pitarrilla from the same cup. Then
they give a shout, and all the guests depart; and
they are considered as married, for they are not allowed
to drink together until late at night. The same
ceremony is observed by rich and respectable slaves.