rather turn the scale in his favour, because I am,
as you will be, an enemy to all associations which
have a tendency to imposition upon the public, and
oppression to such who will not join in the general
confederacy; yet I must, in justice to the Captains
of the confederate party, acknowledge, that their
vessels are all good;
well found; and that they
are civil, decent-behaved men. As it is natural
for them to endeavour to make the most of each
trip,
they will, if they can, foist a few passengers upon
you, even after you have taken the vessel to your own
use only. If you are alone, this intrusion is
not agreeable, but if you have ladies with you, never
submit to it; if they introduce men, who appear like
gentlemen upon your vessel, you cannot avoid treating
them as such; if women, you cannot avoid them treating
them with more attention than may be convenient, because
they
are women; but were it only in consideration
of the sea-sickness and its
consequences, can
any thing be more disagreeable than to admit people
to
pot and
porringer with you, in a
small close cabin, with whom you would neither eat,
drink, or converse, in any other place? but these
are not the only reasons; every gentleman going to
France should avoid making new acquaintance, at Dover,
at Sea, or at
Calais: many
adventurers
are always passing, and many honest men are often
led into grievous and dangerous situations by such
inconsiderate connections; nay, the best, and wisest
men, are the most liable to be off their guard, and
therefore you will excuse my pointing it out to you.
I could indeed relate some alarming consequences,
nay, some fatal ones, which have befallen men of honour
and character in this country, from such unguarded
connections; and such as they would not have been drawn
into, on the other side of the “invidious
Streight.” When an Englishman leaves
his own country, and is got no further from it than
to this town, he looks back upon it with an eye of
partial affection; no wonder then, if he feels more
disposed to be kind to a countryman and a stranger
he may meet in this.—I do not think it would
be difficult to point out, what degree of intimacy
would arise between two men who knew but little of
each other, according to the part of the world they
were to meet in.—I remember the time, when
I only knew your person, and coveted your acquaintance;
at that time we lived in the same town, knew each
other’s general character, but passed without
speaking, or even the compliment of the hat; yet had
we met in London, we should certainly have taken some
civil notice of each other: had the interview
been at York, it is five to one but it would have
produced a conversation: at Edinburgh, or Dublin,
we should have dined, or gone to the play together:
but if we had met at Barbadoes, I should have been
invited to spend a month at your PENN, and experienced
many of those marks of hospitality, friendship, and