beauty, who was kind-hearted and good-natured to all
but her natural enemies (i.e. the members of her own
London society), exerted all her interest with her
admirers in high place in favor of Cunard, and had
made this very dinner for the express purpose of bringing
her provincial
protege into pleasant personal
relations with Lord Lansdowne and Lord Normanby, who
were likely to be of great service to him in the special
object which had brought him to England. The only
other individual I remember at the dinner was that
most beautiful person, Lady Harriet d’Orsay.
Years after, when the Halifax projector had become
Sir Samuel Cunard, a man of fame in the worlds of
commerce and business of New York and London, a baronet
of large fortune, and a sort of proprietor of the
Atlantic Ocean between England and the United States,
he reminded me of this charming dinner in which Mrs.
Norton had so successfully found the means of forwarding
his interests, and spoke with enthusiasm of her kind-heartedness
as well as her beauty and talents; he, of course, passed
under the Caudine Forks, beneath which all men encountering
her had to bow and throw down their arms. She
was very fond of inventing devices for seals, and
other such ingenious exercises of her brains, and she
gave —— a star with the motto, “Procul
sed non extincta,” which she civilly said bore
reference to me in my transatlantic home. She
also told me, when we were talking of mottoes for
seals and rings, that she had had engraved on a ring
she always wore the name of that miserable bayou of
the Mississippi—Atchafalaya—where
Gabriel passes near one side of an island, while Evangeline,
in her woe-begone search, is lying asleep on the other;
and that, to her surprise, she found that the King
of the Belgians wore a ring on which he had had the
same word engraved, as an expression of the bitterest
and most hopeless disappointment.
In 1845 I passed through London, and spent a few days
there with my father, on my way to Italy. Mrs.
Norton, hearing of my being in town, came to see me,
and urged me extremely to go and dine with her before
I left London, which I did. The event of the
day in her society was the death of Lady Holland,
about which there were a good many lamentations, of
which Lady T—— gave the real significance,
with considerable naivete: “Ah,
poore deare Ladi Ollande! It is a grate pittie;
it was suche a pleasant ’ouse!”
As I had always avoided Lady Holland’s acquaintance,
I could merely say that the regrets I heard expressed
about her seemed to me only to prove a well-known fact—how
soon the dead were forgotten. The real
sorrow was indeed for the loss of her house, that
pleasantest of all London rendezvouses, and not for
its mistress, though those whom I then heard speak
were probably among the few who did regret her.
Lady Holland had one good quality (perhaps more than
one, which I might have found out if I had known her):
she was a constant and exceedingly warm friend, and
extended her regard and remembrance to all whom Lord
Holland or herself had ever received with kindness
or on a cordial footing. My brother John had always
been treated with great friendliness by Lord Holland,
and in her will Lady Holland, who had not seen him
for years, left him as a memento a copy, in thirty-two
volumes, of the English essayists, which had belonged
to her husband.