to haue taken it. Euen so if one that standeth
vpon his merite, and spares to craue the Princes liberalitie
in that which is moderate and fit for him, doth vndecently.
For men should not expect till the Prince remembred
it of himselfe and began as it were the gratification,
but ought to be put in remembraunce by humble folicitations,
and that is duetifull, & decent, which made king
Henry
th’eight her Maiesties most noble father, and
for liberality nothing inferiour to king
Alexander
the great, aunswere one of his priuie chamber, who
prayd him to be good & gracious to a certaine old Knight
being his seruant for that he was but an ill begger,
if he be ashamed to begge we wil thinke scorne to
giue. And yet peraduenture in both these cases,
the vndecencie for too much crauing or sparing to craue,
might be easily holpen by a decent magnificence in
the Prince, as
Amazas king of
AEgypt
very honorably considered, who asking one day for one
Diopithus a noble man of his Court, what was
become of him for that he had not sene him wait of
long time, one about the king told him that he heard
say he was sicke and of some conceit he had taken
that his Maiestie had but slenderly looked to him,
vsing many others very bountifully. I beshrew
his fooles head quoth the king, why had he not sued
vnto vs and made vs pruie of his want, then added,
but in truth we are most to blame our selues, who
by a mindeful beneficence without sute should haue
supplied his bashfullnesse, and forthwith commaunded
a great reward in money & pension to be sent vnto
him, but it hapned that when the kings messengers entred
the chamber of
Diopithus, he had newly giuen
vp the ghost: the messengers sorrowed the case,
and
Diopithus friends sate by and wept, not
so much for
Diopithus death, as for pitie that
he ouerliued not the comming of the kings reward.
Therupon it came euer after to be vsed for a prouerbe
that when any good turne commeth too late to be vsed,
to cal it
Diopithus reward.
In Italy and Fraunce I haue knowen it vsed for common
pollicie, the Princes to differre the bestowing of
their great liberalities as Cardinalships and other
high dignities & offices of gayne, till the parties
whom they should seeme to gratifie be so old or so
sicke as it is not likely they should long enioy them.
In the time of Charles the ninth French king,
I being at the Spaw waters, there lay a Marshall of
Fraunce called Monsieur de Sipier, to vse those
waters for his health, but when the Phisitions had
all giuen him vp, and that there was no hope of life
in him, came from the king to him a letters patents
of six thousand crownes yearely pension during his
life with many comfortable wordes: the man was
not so much past remembraunce, but he could say to
the messenger trop tard, trop tard, it
should haue come before, for in deede it had bene
promised long and came not till now that he could
not fare the better by it.