Safe Marriage eBook

Ettie Annie Rout
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 57 pages of information about Safe Marriage.

Safe Marriage eBook

Ettie Annie Rout
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 57 pages of information about Safe Marriage.
Why do so many women allow themselves to be impregnated and infected against their will?  Because they do not understand the construction and functions of their own body.  When they do understand this, they will guard their own health as carefully as they guard their reputation.  They will then not only keep their own sexual organs scrupulously clean, but they will encourage their husbands to do the same.  Sexual intercourse is far more refreshing and exhilarating in every way when both husband and wife have cleansed their parts immediately before enjoying it.  It is only natural that both should wish to be sweet and clean before approaching the closest of all bodily intimacies.

[Footnote F:  It would be much less untrue to say that the remedy for the venereal problem is clean women.—­E.A.R.]

But more than this.  Every well-informed woman knows that there is far more venereal disease in the world to-day, among men and among women, than there was before the war, and she should train all the members of her household in habits of strict cleanliness.  Instinctively they will then avoid risking their health by contact with a possible source of defilement, or if the risk has most unfortunately been taken, they will instantly and instinctively remove and destroy the possible infection, in the same rapid and effective way as they would cleanse their boot from filth accidentally coming in contact with it.  By all means let the mothers continue to inculcate virtue, but they should also teach sexual cleanliness directly and indirectly, themselves setting the example.  After all, the microbes of venereal disease grow almost exclusively in the genital passages, and if these were kept sweet and clean there would soon be an end to venereal disease.  It is not a matter of making vice safe:  it is a matter of making marriage safe:  a matter of restoring and maintaining physical health, family and national, and above all, of protecting innocent women and children, for if vice has its dangers so also in these days has innocence its own peculiar perils, and it is the cry of these victims—­often so young and so fair—­that must affect us most deeply.

More than fourteen years ago, Mr. George Bernard Shaw, in the Preface to “Getting Married,” wrote the following regarding “The Pathology of Marriage":—­

“As to the evils of disease and contagion, our consciences are sound enough:  what is wrong with us is ignorance of the facts.  No doubt this is a very formidable ignorance in a country where the first cry of the soul is, ‘Don’t tell me:  I don’t want to know,’ and where frantic denials and furious suppressions indicate everywhere the cowardice and want of faith which conceives life as something too terrible to be faced.  In this particular case, ’I don’t want to know’ takes a righteous air, and becomes ’I don’t want to know anything about the diseases which are the just punishment of wretches who
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