Secondly, with regard to betting and gambling, which may be classed with drinking, as the fruitful parent of bad company, and a descensus ad infernum:—do you not think a boy may be best guarded against a habit of betting, which is so likely to lead on to gambling, by taking the same line as a boy of my acquaintance took with his mother when she was warning him against it: “Well, mother, you see, it always does seem so mean to me to get a fellow’s money from him without giving him anything in return; it always does seem so like prigging, and some of our fellows are awfully hard up, and can’t afford to lose a penny.” Mr. Gladstone was evidently of the same opinion when he once said to his private secretary, Sir Edward Hamilton, that he “regarded gambling as nothing short of damnable. What can be the fun of winning other people’s money?” This strikes me as a way of putting it which would appeal most forcibly to a boy; and if, in addition, we were to point out to him that, like all shady things, it has a tendency to grow and sharpen the man into a sharper and develop the blood-sucking apparatus of a leech, besides bringing wretchedness and misery on others, he might be led to resist the first beginnings of a betting habit which may lead on to gambling in after years.
And here I would say that the absolute absence of any training given to a boy in the right use and value of money, which has obtained till lately in our English schools, is surely suicidal and must lend itself to every form of abuse. I do not know whether it is the same with you, but many of our boys know money only in the form of pocket-money, when it becomes to him a metal token mostly signifying so much “tuck”; becoming, as he grows older, more and more deleterious “tuck” in the shape of billiards, betting, etc., and ending in a general going “on tick,” which is worse still. But in this matter we are improving. I think most sensible parents nowadays place a small sum at their bank to the boy’s account, with a check-book, making