Let the boy speak aloud, if he pleases—that
is, to a certain pitch; let his blood circulate; let
the natural secretions take place, and the physical
effluvia be thrown off by a free exercise of voice
and limbs: but do not keep him dumb and motionless
as a statue—his blood and his intellect
both in a state of stagnation, and his spirit below
zero. Do not send him in quest of knowledge alone,
but let him have cheerful companionship on his way;
for, depend upon it, that the man who expects too much
either in discipline or morals from a boy, is not
in my opinion, acquainted with human nature.
If an urchin titter at his own joke, or that of another—if
he give him a jab of a pin under the desk, imagine
not that it will do him an injury, whatever phrenologists
may say concerning the organ of destructiveness.
It is an exercise to the mind, and he will return
to his business with greater vigor and effect.
Children are not men, nor influenced by the same motives—they
do not reflect, because their capacity for reflection
is imperfect; so is their reason: whereas on
the contrary, their faculties for education (excepting
judgment, which strengthens my argument) are in greater
vigor in youth than in manhood. The general neglect
of this distinction is, I am convinced, a stumbling-block
in the way of youthful instruction, though it characterizes
all our modern systems. We should never forget
that they are children; nor should we bind them by
a system, whose standard is taken from the maturity
of human intellect. We may bend our reason to
theirs, but we cannot elevate their capacity to our
own. We may produce an external appearance, sufficiently
satisfactory to ourselves; but, in the meantime, it
is probable that the child may be growing in hypocrisy,
and settling down into the habitual practice of a fictitious
character.
But another and more serious objection may be urged
against the present strictness of scholastic discipline—which
is, that it deprives the boy of a sense of free and
independent agency. I speak this with limitations,
for a master should be a monarch in his school, but
by no means a tyrant; and decidedly the very worst
species of tyranny is that which stretches the young
mind upon the rod of too rigorous a discipline—like
the despot who exacted from his subjects so many barrels
of perspiration, whenever there came a long and severe
frost. Do not familiarize the mind when young
to the toleration of slavery, lest it prove afterwards
incapable of recognizing and relishing the principle
of an honest and manly independence. I have known
many children, on whom a rigor of discipline, affecting
the mind only (for severe corporal punishment is now
almost exploded), impressed a degree of timidity almost
bordering on pusillanimity. Away, then, with the
specious and long-winded arguments of a false and
mistaken philosophy. A child will be a child,
and a boy a boy, to the conclusion of the chapter.
Bell or Lancaster would not relish the pap or caudle-cup
three times a day; neither would an infant on the
breast feel comfortable after a gorge of ox beef.
Let them, therefore, put a little of the mother’s
milk of human kindness and consideration into their
straight-laced systems.