by girls, that it is not to the journalists that they
must look for the last word in a controversy, nor for
a permanent presentment of contemporary history.
Again, it is necessary to remember the waywardness
of girls’ minds, and that it is conviction, not
submission of views that we must aim at. A show
of authority is out of place, the tone that “you
must think as I do,” tends without any bad will
on the part of children to exasperate them and rouse
the spirit of opposition, whereas a patient and even
deferential hearing of their views and admission of
their difficulties ensures at least a mind free from
irritation and impatience, to listen and to take into
account what we have to say. They are not to
be blamed for having difficulties in accepting what
we put before them; on the contrary we must welcome
their independent thought even if it seems aggressive
and conceited; their positive assurance that they
see to the end of things is characteristic of their
age, but it is better that they should show themselves
thus, than through want of thought or courage fall
in with everything that is set before them, or, worse
still, take that pose of impartiality which allows
no views at all, and in the end obliterates the line
between right and wrong. The too submissive minds
which give no trouble now, are laying it all up for
the future. They accept what we tell them without
opposition, others will come later on, telling them
something different, and they will accept it in the
same way, and correct their views day by day to the
readings of the daily paper, or of the
vogue
of their own particular set. These are the minds
which in the end are absorbed by the world: the
Church receives neither love nor service from them.
Judgment may be passed upon actions as right or wrong
in themselves, or as practically adapting means to
end; the first is of great interest even to young
children, but for them it is all black or white, and
characters are to them entirely good or entirely bad,
deserving of unmixed admiration or of their most excellent
hatred, which they pour out simply and vehemently,
rejoicing without qualms of pity when punishment overtakes
the wrongdoer and retributive justice is done to the
wicked. This is perhaps what makes them seem bloodthirsty
in their vengeance; they feel that so it ought to
be, and that the affirmation of principle is of more
account than the individual. They detest half-measures
and compromise. For the elder girls it is not
so simple, and the nearer they come to our own times
the more necessary is it to put before them that good
is not always unaccompanied by evil nor evil by good.